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How do you heal a broken heart? This was the question that I posed during my homily to the Synod Fathers on the Feast of St. Luke in October, as we gathered to discern how best to serve the needs of youth in our modern world. It was a question that resonated deeply in my heart, not solely because Saint Luke was a physician but also because of the need for you and me to help heal the hearts and lives of those who were sexually abused and victimized as youth. Their lives were forever changed, in some cases shattered, because of the crimes and sins of predator priests. As members of our Church family, we need to listen to the stories of their abuse, accompany them in their struggles and pain and help them to find healing in Christ through our love and concern for them.

On that morning in Rome, I said these words that continue to resonate in my heart: “For Christ alone is the Divine Physician who can truly heal us with His love. It is Christ who is the face of Mercy Himself. It is His gift of loving mercy, offered not as an object to be received but a share in His very life, that can enlighten our minds, comfort us in our doubts, give consolation in our suffering and forgive the burden of our sins.  As water that is poured on dry land finds the cracks in the hardened soil to penetrate its very depths, so too does Christ’s mercy, poured out upon saints and sinner alike, seeks the cracks of our broken hearts to bring us healing and hope.  It was unlocking the power of divine mercy that transformed Luke into a true physician, whose words and witness can teach us how to heal broken hearts.”

The Lord invites you and me to reach out to those who have been sexually abused and to become for them Christ’s hands, feet, heart and voice of compassion, consolation, listening, and accompaniment. Standing with them in love will allow Christ’s power, grace, and mercy to help them to find the peace and healing that only our Lord can give.

If we stand with our abused brothers and sisters in love, what we will discover is that Christ will also heal our hearts and lives as well.

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos! Do not miss Bishop Frank’s latest video: What Does it Mean to Stand with Christ?

Much has been written about the spiritual needs of young people who face an ever-changing and challenging world. Technology alone presents unparalleled opportunities for improvements in education and social networking, (which I did not have when I was young), while at the same time tempting young people into behavior that can easily become addictive and even destructive. As a Church, both on the local and diocesan levels, our efforts to form, support and accompany young people is one of our greatest priorities.

I have been privileged to work in the field of youth and young adult ministry for most of my priesthood, especially in these last six years as Episcopal Liaison to the National Federation for Catholic Youth Ministry (NFCYM) and the USCCB World Youth Day USA Liaison. These positions have given me wonderful opportunities to collaborate with women and men who have devoted their entire lives to serving young people and from whom I have learned a great deal. I have also treasured the times when I have been able to teach and accompany young people in our Diocese and elsewhere. I have always found them to be open-hearted, sincere in their desire to make a positive difference in life and most importantly, hungry for a real personal relationship with the Lord Jesus, even if they do not know the language of faith to describe that relationship. While the challenges they face are many and at times serious, there is also great opportunities and much hope for the future.

To stand with our young people is to give them opportunities to ask their questions honestly and directly, expecting that their questions will be answered in faith. It means to introduce them to a living Savior who will never love their sins but will always love them and who calls them to forgiveness and conversion. It asks that we accompany them in their personal struggles by loving them as they are, while at the same time inviting them to seek true greatness in Christ. It also asks that we allow our young people to exercise leadership in appropriate ways while serving as their mentors, teaching them how to learn from their mistakes and to build upon their strengths and talents.

I firmly believe that if we wish to transform the world, it will be the young people who will lead the charge. Let us help them to take up this challenge, for their sakes and for ours.

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos! Do not miss Bishop Frank’s latest video: What Does it Mean to Stand with Christ?

As World Youth Day celebrations continue here in Panama, I was deeply saddened to learn about the recent law passed in my former home state that has liberalized the state’s already permissive laws for abortion. The fact that these new sets of regulations were signed into law on the anniversary of Roe vs. Wade is itself a travesty. However, to consider that countless more unborn children will be robbed of their God-given right to enjoy the gift of life- a gift that only God can give and only God can take away- must become a moment of real decision for all Christian believers and every reasonable person of good will.

How disturbing is the state of our contemporary American society that chooses to blatantly disregard human life, both unborn life and life that is vulnerable at any age. It is an undeniable fact that no past society has prospered if it did not at the same time value, protect and nurture the sacredness of every human life. What path are we forging for ourselves as a society when politicians, claiming to refrain from following their own conscience in favor of reflecting the “will” of their constituents, allow laws that attack life in the womb? Is not government designed in part to protect the vulnerable in our midst?

Do not these same government and societal leaders claim to be inclusive of all people? If so, why do they close the door on the unborn and not welcome these children into our midst? Do they not claim to be tolerant and seek to create a “large tent” in which everyone can be accepted? If so, why are the unborn not given a place in that “tent”?

As Christians, we must stand with our children by rejecting without exception the sin of abortion. We must remain steadfast in our commitment to protect unborn life, as well as support every human life at any age. We must lead by the personal witness of our own lives. We must find new and effective ways to provide material and spiritual support for those mothers who wish to bring their children into the world. And we must pray for the conversion of our society, which claims to be tolerant and welcoming, that it may do so precisely for the unborn in our midst.

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos.

As the Christmas season came to an end, I was left the final task of packing all the Christmas decorations away. In addition to my rooms at the seminary, I also continue to put up some of the Christmas decorations that my parents used when they were alive. In order to do so, I temporarily remove a number of photos from the top of some cabinets, photos that my mother cherished, some of which date back to a trip to Venice which my parents took with my sister and me in 1966. I consider those pictures to be priceless heirlooms of my family’s history.

This year, as I returned them to their places, I noticed one photo in particular. It depicts my sister and I standing in front of my mother and father, with my mother smiling at my sister and me (we were probably 6 and 2 years old respectively) while my father was kissing my mother. My mother’s smile and my father’s kiss spoke a powerful message, conveying the great affection and joy that they felt, in part because their children were on track to enjoy a better life than they did as children in the poverty of southern Italy.

I have been reflecting upon that picture for the last two weeks. For me it is a symbol of what “standing by our children” really means. In part, it conveyed a feeling from my parents of protection, affection, encouragement, joy and satisfaction that their children would be OK. Perhaps in many ways, that one photo summarized what my parents valued the most and worked for during their entire married life.

There are far too many children who do not enjoy such protection, affection, encouragement and joy in their lives for many reasons. Yet each of them, regardless of their earthly parents, are children of our Heavenly Father. As a community of believers, should we not recommit ourselves, in these troubled times, to do whatever we can to stand by every child in our midst, to ensure that they also will be ok?

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos! Do not miss Bishop Frank’s latest video: What Does it Mean to Stand with Christ?

In this morning’s Reading at Mass, taken from the Letter to the Hebrews, we hear that the Son of God is “as far superior to the angels as the name he has inherited is more excellent than theirs.” We are reminded that angels are real and serve a very important spiritual purpose.

Angels are spiritual beings who serve the mission of God in part by accompanying you and me in our ordinary lives. They protect us against evil, inspire us when we make decisions and accompany us each day. As such, it can be said that the angels stand with us in every moment of our lives, so that we might walk with confidence and joy towards our home in eternal life.

My mother used to call me her “angel” as a little boy when I would help her around the house. What I did not realize at that time was that she was thanking me for standing by her side, loving her in the daily ways that only a child can give.

As we start this great campaign to bring renewal to our diocesan Church, I am asking that you and I stand with our neighbors in need. In some sense, the campaign is an invitation to imitate the angels. Are you and I willing to stand by the sick, poor, homeless, our young people, the immigrant, refugee, the lost, abandoned and those forgotten, just as the angels stand by us? Are we willing to be like an angel to those who need us most?

The Fathers of the Church used to remind their people that the angels can be seen by anyone who has the eyes of faith. Let us show the world that the angels are real but standing by our neighbor, just as they stand by us.

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos! Do not miss Bishop Frank’s latest video: What Does it Mean to Stand with Christ?

As Father Cantalamessa continues his reflections with the bishops regarding the “new way of thinking” that the Lord wishes to impart upon us, he offered some interesting insights regarding the gift of preaching. One of those insights is so fundamental and important that it raises a series of questions that every Christian must answer every day of his or her life.

Father Raniero began his talk by highlighting an important distinction found in the New Testament when the Scriptures speak of the earliest preaching of the apostles. He noted that when the apostles preached, they did two complementary things. First, they offered a basic kerygma of faith, which means that they proclaimed the fundamental truth of their own belief in the person of Jesus. By doing so, they offered a basic choice to their hearers, inviting them to accept Jesus as their Lord and Messiah. Second, they followed the kerygma by offering didache, which means “teachings” about Jesus. They spoke of Jesus’ message of the Kingdom, His parables and miracles. This didache was to nurture the initial response of faith that the kerygma was meant to raise in their hearers. However, the didache always followed the kerygmatic offer to believe. Otherwise, the didache could easily be reduced to laws, nice teaching, an interesting way of living or another philosophy.

It seems to me that much of our failed efforts in evangelization are due to the fact that we are not preaching the kerygma of Christ. Whether it is in the pulpit or by our daily witness, we are not answering the question posed by Jesus to the apostles: “Who do you say that I am?” We do not clearly and without hesitation proclaim our faith that Jesus is my Lord and Savior, my Messiah and God! Further, we do not ask those around us to reflect upon this same question and to make a choice for or against Him.

How many Christians know the didache and do not embrace the kerygma of Christ? How many times have we shaped Jesus to fit our lives rather than have Him rule our lives? How often have we tamed the message of the Gospel by making it an intellectual, theological construct that entertains our intellectual curiosity, while at the same time robbing the Gospel of its ability to reveal our sinful self-righteousness, anger and belief that we are better than those “fallen away”? How often have we forgotten the power of the kerygma?

It is time to start preaching the kerygma of Jesus Christ. It is time to proclaim without hesitation that He is the Savior whose Death and Resurrection has set us free. He is the Lord of the living and the dead, the only Savior the world will ever know, whose desires our complete submission to His Divine Will, molding us into vessels of His love and mercy. For without embracing the kerygma, learning only the didache may have little eternal results.

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos! 

In yesterday’s reflections, Father Cantalamessa focused upon a key ingredient that marks the “world’s thinking” that needs to be rooted out from the life of every Christian, especially every bishop. He called it “the love of money” that forms the centerpiece of what motivates much of what the world does, often in opposition to the message of the Gospel.

In one of his opening statements, Father Raniero made clear that the modern rival to God is precisely the pursuit of money (and all that this implies, including material possessions, honor, power, etc.). Such a pursuit defines the very nature of the secular world, that sees all things only in terms of their materiality and denies any spiritual quality or dimension to life. He quoted the Scriptural admonition that money is the root of all evil, reminding us as bishops that our attitude towards material possessions (including honor and power) can easily be corrupted by the prevalent attitude of secularity. As such, since we cannot serve two masters, he asked us bluntly: whom do we wish to serve?

Later in his talk, in a moment of great insight, Father Raniero posed another question that has caused me to reflect deeply since he asked it. He remarked: “Why is the pursuit of money so devastating to the spiritual life?” His answer was simple: any person who gets caught in an unbridled pursuit of material possessions makes the grave spiritual mistake to place his or her faith, hope and love in material possessions and not God. Such a person has chosen to worship a false God that is an idol and has forsaken the one, true God. I wonder how much this idolatry has affected various aspects of our Church’s life? I even wonder how often you and I may slip into this idolatry and not even realize it?

If this pursuit for “money” needs to be rooted out from our Christian lives, then we need to embrace a true spirit of detachment. More on this topic in the days ahead.

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The bishops’ retreat began last night here at Our Lady of the Lakes Seminary in Mundelein, Illinois with over 280 bishops in attendance. The first talk was given by Father Raniero Cantalamessa, the Papal Retreat Master, who will lead our retreat. His opening remarks were excellent, focusing in part on the daily need to choose the right priorities around which we can live our daily lives. Of course, a central priority is daily prayer.

Father Raniero concluded his talk with a story that beautifully illustrated the need to choose priorities wisely. He spoke of a meeting where an efficiency expert, speaking to a group of business leaders, placed before himself a large glass vase, into which the expert put a number of large stones until no further stones could fit. The expert then asked his audience: “Is the vase full?” They all answered yes and he countered with the response: “no it is not”.

The expert then proceeded to add smaller pebbles that gradually filled the spaces between the larger stones. He asked the question again: “Is the vase full?” One attendee caught on and said, “No”. The expert agreed and then poured sand into the vase, filling more of the empty space. He asked again: “Is the vase full?” The audience all replied, “No” and the expert agreed, pouring water into the vase until it was, in fact, full.

The expert concluded by asking: “What did you learn from this exercise?” Since no response was forthcoming, the expert asked a different question: “Now that the vase is full, is there any way to go back and add a single large stone into the vase (the ones he began with), now that it is filled with pebbles, sand and water? The universal answer was “no”, to which he replied, “The large stones are the priorities of your life. If you do not start with them each day, they will never fit into your life once the pebbles, sand and water fill in the rest.”

I reflected upon this simple story all last night, asking myself the question: what are my real priorities and do I make a conscious, daily decision to fit them into my life first? It is a question that will accompany me this week on retreat.

Perhaps it is a question that demands your reflection as well?

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos! 

Yesterday began a period of intense prayer and personal reflection for the coming feasts of the Christmas season. It is the traditional time when many cultures began their Christmas novena, ending with the celebration of Midnight Mass on Christmas Eve. Another sign that these days are set aside in a special way appears in the Evening Prayer of the Church, which celebrates the “O’ antiphons at the start of the recitation of the Magnificat. Each “O” antiphon is a different title that describes the characteristics of the Messiah. Together they proclaim the coming of the One who would fulfill the desires of God’s people and bring redemption and peace to humanity and the entire world.

Yesterday’s antiphon calls the Messiah “O Wisdom”- the One who knows all things but also offer us the insights we need to live with a proper perspective and to seek true holiness in everyday life. Today’s antiphon is “O Sacred Lord of Ancient Israel”, reminding us that God, who never goes back on his sacred promises to His Chosen People, brought the fullness of His love into the world through the Incarnation of His Son. Thus, what God promised to His Chosen People is brought to complete fulfillment in His Son.

These days invite us to reflect upon a fundamental question: What does Jesus mean to me? This question can also be rephrased in the following ways: Do I believe Him to be my Lord and Savior? Is He the center of my Life? Do I know Him to be the long-awaited Messiah of the nations?

For if we truly wish to celebrate the birth of Jesus this Christmas, we must be clear as to who He truly is and what response we must give to so great a Gift.

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos! 

As we contemplate the figure of Saint John the Baptist during this second week of Advent, his place in the desert can give us much to reflect upon. For it seems that in our own age, the Lord is guiding us into the desert (or otherwise referred to in the Gospels as the “wilderness”) both as disciples and as a Church.

Recall that the work of any prophet was to speak the truth to the people of his time- a truth about their failures and sins. It was not an easy message to hear, provoking opposition and even persecution. However, the prophet offered these words of correction in the hope that it would move God’s people to embrace and accept the vision of new life that would be realized when the Messiah came to bring redemption and forgiveness to all who ask. As such, the prophets walked among God’s people, preaching a message of both conversion and hope.

In light of this, it is curious that John often found himself in the desert, where there was no ready audience. Why? It seems to me that the answer to this question is critically important. More specifically, those who came to John in the desert accepted the need to leave the comfort, predictability and control of their ordinary life behind, in order to hear his message. The starkness of the desert does not easily allow for distractions, excuses or any attempt to “domesticate” the word of God to fit our comfortable life. Rather, it comes across clearly and powerfully, because in part we have left all other distractions and excuses behind.

In our modern life of faith, filled with distractions, comforts and the unspoken expectation that “my life must be all about me”, it is in the desert that we are most apt to hear the challenge of conversion and surrender to the grace offered by Christ to live a new life. So we can ask ourselves: How can you and I enter into the desert? Where can we find it in our ordinary life? What are we waiting for?

Those who followed John into the desert encountered a message of repentance and hope to come in Jesus. It is time for us to follow John’s lead.

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos! 

As we enter the holy season of Advent that seeks to prepare us for Christmas, we may wish to consider adopting a particular spiritual practice that can prepare our minds and hearts for the coming holy days of the Lord’s Birth. My experience has been that these days become ever more hectic as we approach Christmas. There are many competing obligations that demand our time and attention. As a result, if we are not intentional in making time to prepare, we will find ourselves, before we know it, on the threshold of Christmas, having lost a great opportunity to prepare ourselves to receive the only gift of Christmas that matters- the Lord Himself.

For my part, I have decided to pray over the Book of the Prophet Micah during my daily time in Eucharistic adoration. In addition to its prophecy of the coming of the Messiah (Micah 5: 1-14), it provides a powerful indictment of the sins of God’s people against the covenant, which can serve as a beautiful examination of conscience for any believer. It also short in length, allowing for meditation on short passages of the sacred text, given the brief period of time we have during Advent.

There are many other spiritual exercises that you may wish to consider for your own reflection and growth. Whatever it may be, if you have not already done so, today is the day to make the choice. It is a choice that will transform these days of busy work into a time of silence and peace for which our hearts so desperately desire.

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As we reflect further upon the mystery of Christ’s kingship, we can ask ourselves a simple question: what does it mean to profess our allegiance to Christ the King? What does it look like? How can we live such an allegiance in our secular, confused and compromised world?

The answer to all these questions is the same. To make an allegiance to Christ is to choose to speak, act and stand with Him in faith when we make our ordinary, daily choices. Each time we make a choice between doing what is right and doing what the world wants us to do, we are making a choice between standing with Christ or standing with the world. Each time we need to choose between speaking the truth despite the cost or remaining silent, we are choosing between our allegiance to Christ or the world. Every time we choose between loving a person selflessly and generously or seeking to take advantage of that person for our own benefit, we are choosing to whom we have allegiance- the world or Christ.

The world wants us to believe that Christian discipleship is a far-flung ideal from a distant past that cannot work in our competitive and harsh world. There are many voices who disguise themselves as voices of faith whose tactics resemble the world’s way of acting, all the while claiming to be faithful to Christ. There are even those who sympathize with the Christian teachings solely as a philosophy of life, embracing it as a way to live a “good life” without any reference to the gift of redemption and salvation that is the goal of all Christian discipleship. These voices are all around us, tempting us to make choices that compromise our allegiance to Christ the Lord.

Christ asks those who follow Him to make ordinary choices with His extraordinary grace, allowing our words and actions to reveal His real, transforming presence in the world. Each of these “ordinary” choices matter. Each of them shows to whom we have our true allegiance.

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos! 

For a very long time I found it puzzling that of all the holidays that we celebrated as a family, the one that my father loved the most was Thanksgiving Day. It appeared strange in part because there is no comparable holiday in Italy. Growing up, I always connected the fact that Thanksgiving involved eating a grand meal as the reason for my father’s love of the day since he was no stranger to enjoying a great meal!

However, in my father’s later years, it became clear to me that his love for Thanksgiving had little to do with the meal we eat (usually lasagna followed by turkey and the trimmings). Rather, I began to sense a deeper reason. I realized that it was the one day in the year that allowed my father the opportunity to honor the community that he chose to join and for which he was deeply proud. Thanksgiving was the day that my father celebrated being part of the great, honorable, diverse and sometimes unruly community we form as Americans. He belonged to a community for which he was proud to be a part and considered one of his great blessings.

My father’s example gives me pause as we prepare to celebrate this Thanksgiving Day. For to remember and give thanks for the tangible blessings in our lives is both necessary and obvious. In contrast, we often forget the spiritual, intangible gifts that God has given us. One of those gifts are the very people around us, with whom we live, work, share life as our neighbors, with whom we raise our children, dream of a better future and come together in times of challenge and crisis.

It seems to me that we often take for granted the blessings we share together in our common life as a nation. If we take it for granted, it can easily suffer and even fall apart. For this reason, I ask that you and I recommit ourselves this Thanksgiving to recognize, celebrate and foster the community we form, as one nation under God, in all our diversity, disagreements, and common hope for the future. Let us recommit ourselves to patient listening, a spirit of understanding, a willingness to speak the truth with respect and to stand in solidarity with whomever is our neighbor.

My father loved Thanksgiving for all the right reasons. I pray that I will always follow his example.

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Very often in the life of faith, we spend a great deal of time and effort attending to the immediate needs of those around us. This is absolutely necessary since the demands of charity are the highest obligations that we need to fulfill in discipleship. However, this week I would like to explore the obligation to address the societal factors and systems that create the circumstances that foster poverty, discrimination, inequality, and persecution among God’s children. While an immediate need is to alleviate human suffering, we also have an equally important obligation to root out the causes in our world that create much of this suffering in the first place.

Work that alleviates suffering and addresses real human needs is the work of charity. Both the commitment and efforts to address the causes that create such poverty and suffering is the work of justice. And as the old song reminds us, “you can’t have one without the other.”

The prophets of the Old Testament exercised this sacred duty in two key ways: (1) they were not afraid to highlight the failures of God’s people in this regard and (2) they preached the reform of those structures and attitudes that caused the failures in the first place. Since people very often dislike change, it is not surprising that the prophets were not popular, even among their own people.

As Christians who live in our contemporary age, we cannot escape the obligation to work on behalf of justice. If our ministry is to help usher the Kingdom of God further into our midst, then the work of justice is constituent of our work as disciples of Christ. I realize that it is work that can easily be misunderstood, hijacked by political forces, seen as unconventional or dismissed as unrelated to the work of the Gospel. These are pitfalls that every Christian who is serious about justice must avoid at all costs. However, we cannot forget that the Kingship of Christ will rule over all nations, economic systems, and political parties. For every knee will bow before the Lord, even those of kings, parliaments, rulers, and presidents.

So if we wish to be members of the Kingdom of Christ, to whom will we owe our eternal allegiance? Justice will show us the way.

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos! 

In the Webster’s online dictionary, the word “poverty” is defined as “the state of one who lacks a usual or socially acceptable amount of money or material possessions”. This definition reflects the modern world’s understanding of poverty, seen solely in material terms. However, for those who share faith in the Lord Jesus, we know that poverty has many other faces, none of which have anything to do with material possessions.

Let us consider for example those people who have been denied the affirmation and affection they deserve simply because we are all children of God. This can happen in the most affluent of families, as well as the most materially poor. Faith reminds us that the worldly attempt to show love for someone through the giving of gifts, money or material possessions is only a shadow of what true love is meant to be. Rather authentic love is better expressed in time spent together, telling a person the truth for their own good, standing by someone in times of challenge and forgiving a person when they fall or sin, even against us. Such experiences are transformational in part because they do not demand any material possessions. Anyone can love, whether they are materially rich or poor. In this sense, there is great poverty among many people who may otherwise live comfortable lives.

Poverty also can take a spiritual form. How many people do we know who are angry, upset, disappointed with events in their lives and have turned away from the Lord? They flee from the very One who will stand by them in their darkest hours. For such as these, they find themselves in a form of poverty that can easily empty them of all hope for the future. They are perhaps among the poorest in our midst.

This week we will reflect on the many faces of poverty, as we seek to find effective ways to respond to such needs.

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos!