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STRATFORD—Personalized Learning has transformed instructional practices and has led to greater academic success among students,” says Melissa Warner, principal of St. Mark School in Stratford. “As educators, we develop a deep knowledge of every student and personalize instruction to ensure all students achieve both academic and personal goals.”

To enhance the Personalized Learning initiative, the school has invested in flexible seating, piloting the idea in the fourth grade classroom. Flexible seating allows students to wobble, rock, bounce, lean or stand, which increases oxygen flow to the brain, blood flow and core strength and in turn, increases metabolism and keeps young minds more alert and focused.

This year, thanks to a grant funded through Foundations in Education, St. Mark School initiated Personalized Learning, recognizing that not all great minds think alike.

Through the Personalized Learning initiative, teachers at St. Mark School enrich learning experiences in station rotation by creating meaningful, engaging learning tasks designed to enhance the skills of their students, while providing teachers the opportunity to lead targeted, small group instruction and individual student/teacher conferencing. Educational software is used in the technology station to a student’s individual learning path, helping to inform teacher instruction.

Students are given a choice to work on yoga mats, game chairs, yoga balls and high/low tables. Principal Warner commented, “Students feel empowered by having some degree of choice and control over their environment.” Next year the school hopes to have all elementary classrooms equipped with some level of flexible furniture.

“We recognize that students today learn differently and we are excited to transform the paradigm of education here at St. Mark School,” remarked Warner. “It is our job to prepare students for the moral, intellectual, social, technological and physical demands of today’s society.”

Superintendent of Schools Dr. Steven Cheeseman added, “St. Mark is a wonderful school where my child thrived academically. The staff and teachers did an exceptional job preparing her for the future. The reason my child chose St. Mark over any other school was her experience spending a shadow day. The tight knit community and level of comfort she felt the minute she walked through the doors made all the difference.”

Graduates of St. Mark School typically enroll in high school honors courses, and those enrolling in Catholic high schools are known for achieving academic merit scholarships. Last year’s entire graduating class all continued onto Catholic high school, with the majority enrolling at St. Joseph High School in Trumbull.

St. Joe’s President, Dr. Bill Fitzgerald, noted, “One key to academic success is continuity in instruction. The teachers and administration at St. Mark School have always been diligent in keeping up an engaged conversation with St. Joe’s regarding curriculum expectations and individual aptitudes. It shows in the smooth transition their students make to high school, and it is evidenced by their quality college acceptances.”

St. Mark School is a Catholic elementary school located in the north end of Stratford, committed to the intellectual, spiritual, moral, social, and physical development of each student. St. Mark School welcomes students of all faiths, values diversity, recognizes the individuality of every student and believes that all students are created with unique gifts and talents.

St. Mark School is a Nationally Recognized Blue Ribbon School of Academic Excellence and a New England Association of Schools and Colleges (NEASC) accredited school, serving students in Pre-K through Grade 8.

In celebration of National Catholic Schools Week, St. Mark School is hosting an Open House on January 26, 2020 from 10am-1pm. For more information, visit www.stmarkschool.org or call 203.375.4291.

PHONEIX- On December 30th, 2019, nine Western CT State University students along with their four FOCUS missionaries and Chaplain Father Augustine traveled to Phoenix, Arizona for the Fellowship of Catholic University Students (FOCUS) Student Leadership Summit (SLS). The conference had over 8,000  Roman Catholic college-aged attendees.

The conference took place in the convention center for five days. Each day consisted of the Sacraments, speakers, entertainment, and opportunities for future vocations. The purpose of the conference was to teach students how to evangelize their campuses, parishes, and community. Students were given the tools to become leaders in the faith in their respective arenas. They were challenged to teach others by going to training sessions and then having to bring back the information they learned to their respective small groups.

The difficulty of living out a Catholic lifestyle is extensive for most Catholic young adults. They are often accused of being unloving or misunderstanding of their peers. However, this conference gave students the opportunity to fully understand that the Catholic view is the optimistic view. Catholic means universal and that our Church is one that can grow extensively if we meet others where they are. SLS highlighted that these young individuals can be the ones that bring others to our Church. They can be the ones that meet their peers at their brokenness and guide them to a life centered on Christ.

Overall, the conference is a true indicator that if we all work in the hearts of our youth, our communities will thrive and continue to grow.

Mariana Martins’s Testimony

Being one of the nine students that went to SLS was an opportunity of a lifetime as I watched the reversion of hearts that was taking place in my heart and the hearts of my friends. Going into SLS, I thought that there wasn’t much more Jesus could do in my heart. I thought I was doing just fine and that I can keep living life the way I had all the days prior. However, I never thought that SLS would be such a wake-up call to me, my peers and even the Church as a whole.

The first night of keynote speakers consisted of Father Mike Schmitz and Emily Wilson. Their talks highlighted the artificial conversations we have with our peers. We often are asked “How are you?” with the automatic reply set to “I’m good, just tired” or “I’m busy!” However, this talk spoke deeply into the hearts of thousands of college students attending the conference. Our hearts aren’t fine, some are broken, wounded or transformed. Our world tells us that we have to be good all the time. That vulnerability is a sign of weakness and that people will hate the parts ourselves that aren’t “perfect.” However, this isn’t true. Authentic friendships rooted in Jesus Christ will free you from fabricated friendships that are based only on convenience and interests.

During the conference, I was specifically touched by Sister Miriam James Heidland, who I had the opportunity to listen to three times out of the five days I was there.  She spoke a lot about healing and freeing ourselves from our wounds. She pointed out that 80% of our current distress is caused by our past. This struck me when she said it because currently, the Church is facing a crisis, where young adults are struggling to find their place in the Catholic faith. No one has taught them that carrying their cross will be difficult and that they too may go through agonizing pain like being nailed to their own cross. However, Sister pointed out that if they look to Jesus and let Him enter their hearts, they too will see a transformation in their wounds and begin a journey to healing and freedom. This talk gave me the opportunity to enter into the hearts of my friends and my own. We all became more aware that we are limited to our humanness and we need good authentic friendships to bring us closer to Christ. These friendships remind us that it isn’t what we do, but who we are that matters.

Emily Lynch’s Testimony

Leading up to SLS, I was nervous and apprehensive. However, SLS exceeded my expectations. It was amazing to be surrounded by about eight to ten thousand Catholics from around the world. Everyone was very open to conversation which is rare in our society today. The speakers were also amazing! During almost all of them, I felt God calling me higher. Others gave me a new perspective on the teachings of the Church. Most importantly, I learned how to effectively evangelize. At first, the task seemed very daunting; however, by the end of the conference, I was ready to do it! Going into SLS, I assumed that evangelizing meant just telling random strangers about your faith and being shut out by them. But that is not the case at all! I learned that evangelization needs authentic friendship first. Throughout the conference, they emphasized the importance of evangelization which I had not realized prior to SLS. They said it came down to saving souls and heaven or hell for both of us. The one thing that turned my heart was Sister Miriam James and adoration.

Going into the conference, I had a vague idea of God’s eternal love. Then, Sister Miriam James gave a talk about our wounds. She emphasized that if we leave our hearts open to Jesus, He can fix it all. Right after that talk was adoration and that is just what I did. I dove deep and told Jesus about wounds I had shoved down and wow Sister was right. That night I felt God’s love like never before. I was filled with such joy after opening my heart that I wanted to share my faith which was a new feeling to me. I always had seen evangelization as a chore. There were talks after saying “Jesus’ love is greater than our fears” and I actually knew what they were talking about. I came home with my heart on fire and trying to share the Gospel. While I have not always succeeded, I have made more improvements since I got home than in my entire life. If you are looking to deepen your faith and really get to know God, SLS is the place to do it.

WASHINGTON, D.C.—Catholics nationwide are preparing to pray 9 Days for Life, the annual pro-life novena beginning this year on January 21.

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On November 23, I delivered the following address at the Order’s midyear or-ganizational meeting of state deputies in Orlando, Fla. I encourage all Knights to read and reflect on these remarks about the mission and future of the Knights of Columbus and a historic moment in the life of our Order—the introduction of a new, optional combined exemplification of our principles of charity, unity and fraternity.

EACH YEAR in November, we take stock of what we have done and what still remains to be done. Yet this year is different. Why? Because we’ve reached a turning point. We’ve reached a crossroads as an Order, and in the Church itself.

A rising tide lifts all boats, and there has been a rising tide since the Second Vatican Council. The council opened the floodgates of lay involvement and lay leadership in our Church. The Knights of Columbus has been there at every level of the Church in service and in solidarity. In so many ways, we have been indispensable as the strong right arm of our pastors, our bishops and even, at times, our popes. As an Order, we have nearly doubled our size since the middle of the 20th century, and in recent years, we exponentially increased our charity.

But there is another tide—a tide that is no longer rising. In fact, it is a tide that is receding, and it is receding fast—and it’s pulling much of what we love out to sea. We all can see what is happening; it’s impossible to ignore.

Over the last 50 years, more than 26 million Americans have left the Catholic faith, along with millions more in Canada. In the past several decades alone, baptisms have fallen by more than 40%; sacramental marriages have plummeted by two-thirds; and the percentage of Catholics who attend Mass every week has dropped from more than half to just over 20%.

Approximately four out of every 10 “born and raised” Catholics no longer identify as Catholics, and for every person in the United States who converts to the Catholic faith, seven leave. This year marked the first time that a majority of Hispanics in the United States said they don’t identify as Catholic. Although the recent scandals have contributed to this trend, the involvement of Catholics in our Church—usually measured by attendance at Mass—has been declining for many decades.

This is a crisis for our Church. This is a crisis for our Catholic families. We are not talking about abstractions. We are talking about our parishes, our communities, our councils, our families and our friends.

And this is a crisis for our Order. The hard reality is that the Knights of Columbus is not immune to these trends. You know as well as I do that we are finding it harder to recruit men—especially younger men. And while many juris-dictions are still adding members and inspiring more good works, in other jurisdictions this is no longer the case. This trend makes clear that our long-term future is far from secure—both as a Church and as an Order. We cannot expect someone else to come in and make everything right. The challenges are too great. All of us have a responsibility. We must step up and we must act now. This crisis calls for Knights.

OUR ESSENTIAL ROLE
Our popes have been calling our at-tention to this crisis for decades—most importantly when they speak about the Church’s mission of evangelization, as did Pope St. Paul VI in Evangelii Nuntiandi, Pope St. John Paul II in Redemptoris Missio and, most recently, Pope Francis in Evangelii Gaudium. We can see why this is a crisis of evangelization when we examine the reasons Catholics themselves say they leave.

First, large numbers of young adults rebel after years of catechesis and sacramental practice under their parents’ guidance. Many of them find they were only going through the motions with their parents; they never really internalized the Catholic faith and now they find it boring.

A second category is made up of Catholics who choose a lifestyle contrary to Catholic moral teaching and leave the Church.

And a third group is made up of Catholics who faced a crisis and needed help, but did not receive support from their fellow Catholics.

My brother Knights, this crisis in our Church is really a crisis of evangelization—or rather, it is a crisis of a failure to evangelize. In a particular way, it is a failure to evangelize the Catholic family and to evangelize within the Catholic family. Such a crisis cannot be adequately responded to without the action of Catholic husbands and fathers.

Three decades ago, St. John Paul II told us that the lay faithful have “an essential and irreplaceable role” in the Church’s mission of evangelization (Christifideles Laici, 7). Today, I say to you that the Knights of Columbus has “an essential and irreplaceable role” in con-fronting the crisis we now face as a Church.

The Knights of Columbus will rise to meet this challenge. We will take up our essential and irreplaceable role. We must become again a Church that evangelizes—a Church that evangelizes its children and families and at the same time reaches out to those who do not yet know Christ who is “the Way, the Truth, and the Life.” We can and we must do this by our witness and our charity.

Today, the Knights of Columbus has the tools to meet this crisis on two important levels. First, because of our Faith in Action model we now have effective programs to meet the challenges we face—programs to evangelize and strengthen Catholic family life with our men’s spirituality and marriage spirituality programs like Into the Breach, Complete My Joy, and The Family Fully Alive.

We are also inspiring a new generation of Catholic men by the witness of brother Knights who are true Everyday Heroes through the video series with that title. Our Office of Youth Protection offers a robust program to enhance a safe environment for our children, and the film Protecting Our Children: A Family’s Response to Sexual Abuse offers families knowledge and concrete steps to help keep their children safe.

We continue in countless ways to bring Christ’s love and concern to millions who suffer and are in need. We provide a charity that evangelizes because it sees in the face of all those who suffer the face of Christ. And this must be especially true for our brothers and sisters in our parishes who face hardship and suffering. We must redouble all these efforts, and we must bring the programs in our Faith in Action model to even greater heights.

We must forge a new generation of Knights—men who see in our principles of charity, unity and fraternity a path to leading a Catholic way of life that can strengthen their families, their parishes and their communities. Just as our forefathers rallied to meet the challenges of their day, we must inspire the men of our day.

We must reach out to meet these men where they are. And when we do, we must show them that they are called to be men of charity, unity and fraternity. Because of this, we are acting to make our Order more inviting and more accessible. Our online membership initiative has already opened the door to membership where no local councils may be active. Early in the new year, we will begin offering a new and groundbreaking combined exemplification of our principles of charity, unity and fraternity.

A NEW CEREMONY FOR A NEW ERA
This historic new ceremonial is rooted in our past and tailored to our present. It will inspire more men to join us. Most of all, it is essential to the sustainability of the Knights of Columbus, as it will empower us to advance our mission and grow in the years ahead. It is essential to our ability to meet the crisis we now face.

Before I explain what the new ceremony entails, let me first address why it is necessary. The current degrees are products of the late 19th century. At that time, the Knights of Columbus competed with other fraternal societies. In those days, men wanted secrecy and the sense of progression that came with multiple degrees. That’s why our founder and first members initially created a system of two ceremonies. Over time, a third and then a fourth were added.

The idea of a journey through knighthood in which men pro-gressed from one degree to the next was meant to encourage greater participation in the activities of the Order. It was meant to inspire men to seek leadership roles in our local councils—and for a time it worked well. But the men of today are not the men of the 1880s, or even the men of the 1980s.

In recent decades, we have found it harder to bring men, especially young fathers, into the Order. When we ask them why, they tell us three ceremonies are too time-consuming and too difficult to attend. They also tell us that secrecy is unnecessary, and sometimes, it is even an impediment to joining.

Many local councils lack ceremonial teams or the manpower to organize degrees. This means many candidates wait far too long to fully join our ranks. Some give up. Too many never take their Second and Third degrees. Last year, little more than half of the men who took their First Degree also took their Third Degree.

This situation will not improve during the coming decade as the number of ceremonial teams—especially Third Degree teams—decline. Today, our current system is too often a stumbling block, not a gateway to membership. Today, our current system too often fails to promote a truly Catholic fraternal membership according to the vision of Father McGivney.

Our ceremonials have always been an essential way we teach the principles of charity, unity and fraternity. But today, too many men never hear the lessons of unity and fraternity. The current inability of our system to reach so many brother Knights and teach them the lessons of unity and fraternity must have an impact on the character and life of many local councils. All this threatens the future of our Order. We have the responsibility to act and to act now.

We must find new ways to bring the men we need—and the men who need us—into our Order. We no longer need a journey through knighthood based upon a progression of degrees that nearly half our men are unwilling or unable to take. Today, we need an exemplification of our principles that presents, in a clear and convincing way, how charity, unity and fraternity can come together to form a Catholic way of life for today’s man and his family.

Our most recent Supreme Convention adopted a resolution from Illinois to consider combining our current First, Second and Third degree ceremonies into one and removing the condition of secrecy. Following the Supreme Convention’s action, I directed an in-depth review of our ceremonials with an eye toward staying true to our roots while at the same time presenting our principles of charity, unity and fraternity in a more clear and convincing way. We undertook an inclusive process with supreme directors, state officers and ceremonialists with many decades of experience in the exemplification of our degrees.

The result is a new ceremony that stays true to our traditions while addressing the needs of our times. Instead of having separate ceremonies, all three degrees can now be conferred in a single ceremony. The new exemplification focuses on the history and principles of our Order. It presents a fuller and richer understanding of who we are, what we stand for and what we are called to be. It hearkens back to the simple ceremonies of unity and charity first approved by Father McGivney.

Our new ceremony can be held in a council chamber or in a church with families and friends seated in the pews. They will see firsthand the organization that their husbands, fathers, brothers, sons and friends are joining—the principles and values they are committing to and why it matters.

FOLLOWING OUR FOUNDER
Now, I recognize that this is a significant change. Like so many of you, I have a special fondness for the old degree ceremonies. Yet, also like you, and every leader of our Order, I want to see the Knights of Columbus thrive and grow. The Knights of Columbus needs the men of today. In the 1880s, Father Mc-Givney oversaw reforms that were needed to allow his young organization to flourish. Looking back on those changes, our founder proudly declared: “The Knights of Columbus is the same now as when first instituted.”

My brother Knights, I say the same to you today. Together with our online membership initiative, our new combined cer-emonial will form the two wings upon which membership growth can soar to new heights. All of this will be supported by a new branding and marketing campaign that will be released early in the new year. It will focus on how we can more effectively invite men to join us. And it will show that “one-on-one recruiting” is most effective when it expresses our own personal experiences in the Order.

We are making a paradigm shift. Years ago, when each of us accepted the responsibilities of fraternal leadership, few of us thought that those duties would one day include taking up pro-grams to support the Church’s mission of evangelization. Yet, such are the circumstances we face. Throughout our history, the Knights of Columbus has been called to adapt to change. Now we are again taking bold steps. But boldness is what the times demand. We cannot shrink from the crisis around us. We must meet it head-on, with firm reliance on our faith and in each other.

Today, we face a great crisis throughout the Church in North America. We are at a crossroads we cannot avoid. At such times, our thoughts turn to Father McGivney.

During his trip to the United States in 2008, Pope Benedict XVI spoke of our founder. He said Father McGivney represented “the secret of the impressive growth” of the Catholic Church in our continent. We should be inspired and humbled that a pope should highlight Father McGivney in such a way as a model for our fellow Catholics. We continue to pray for his canonization—that through the example of his heroic virtue, his vision and his intercession, millions of Catholics will be inspired.

Father McGivney’s example and his vision can again be the reason for the “impressive growth” of our Church in the days ahead. Father McGivney saw that Catholic men united in charity could form a brotherhood that would enable them to fulfill their mission to manifest Christ to others by their witness and in that way contribute to the sanctification of the world. For Father Mc-Givney, the path of charity, unity and fraternity was to be an enduring path of Christian discipleship.

Then, Father McGivney did something that made all the difference—he entrusted this great task to the Catholic laymen he called his brothers. He could have chosen to serve as the leader of the new organization that his vision and his determination had made a reality. Instead, he trusted laymen, in unity with their clergy and with their guidance, to direct and carry out their own part in the mission of the Church. This is the great legacy that you and I have inherited.

May the intercession of Father McGivney guide, sustain and enable us to fulfill our vocation as leaders of this great Order for the welfare of our brother Knights and the renewal of our Church.

Vivat Jesus!

by Supreme Knight Carl A. Anderson  I  Originally published in Columbia Magazine

VATICAN CITY—Speaking to Simon Wiesenthal Center delegation on eve of 75th Anniversary of Auschwitz Liberation: Pope Francis Decries ‘Resurgent, barbaric’ anti-Semitism; urges world ‘to look within and listen in silence to plea of suffering humanity.’

During a private audience of 54 international leadership delegation from the Simon Wiesenthal Center on the 78th anniversary of the infamous Wannsee Conference in 1942 that sealed the fate of European Jewry, and on the eve of the 75th anniversary of the liberation of the death camp at Auschwitz-Birkenau, Pope Francis warned the world, “If we lose our memory we destroy our future.” He added, “May the anniversary of the unspeakable cruelty that humanity learned of 75 years ago serve as a summons to pause, be still, and to remember. We need to do this lest we become indifferent.”

Responding to the speech of Rabbi Marvin Hier, Dean and Founder of the leading Jewish Human Rights NGO, Pope Francis went on to denounce “a barbaric resurgence of cases of antisemitism. I will never tire of firmly condemning every form of antisemitism,” the Pope added.

Pope Francis concluded his remarks recalling the Vatican’s historic Nostra Aetate that pointed out the shared “rich spiritual patrimony” of Judaism and Christianity. He urged members of both faiths to work together and invoked the book of Exodus to “remember the past and have compassion on those who suffer, and in this way till the soil of fraternity.”

In his remarks, Rabbi Hier focused on the surging anti-Semitism worldwide:

“Sadly, our visit today comes at a time when anti-Semitism and bigotry have again taken center stage threatening our world and the future of humankind.

“It was on this very day, January 20th, some 78 years ago where 14 people sat around the table in Wannsee to plot the ‘Final Solution’, a code word that would lead to the extermination of 6 million Jews. Who could have imagined that a mere eight decades later we would again witness another worldwide epidemic of anti-Semitism and hate.

“That is our dilemma, here we are in 2020 – anti-Semitism and bigotry are present everywhere. In the heart of our democracies in London, Paris, in Berlin, in the Parliaments, and here in Rome where an 89-year-old Holocaust survivor needs police protection to go shopping.

“This hate has now crossed the Atlantic and infected America’s cities, and her prestigious learning centers…even in the halls of Congress and the United Nations.

“Worse, reminiscent of the Holocaust years, religious Jews identified by their skull caps, or by their beards, are particularly vulnerable, even when they light their Chanukah candles in the privacy of their home in Monsey, NY.”

Turning his attention to the Holocaust-denying Iranian regime and to the world’s indifference to the persecution of Christians, Rabbi Hier asked: “How can we explain that 75 years after the liberation of Auschwitz, the leaders and mullahs of Iran continue to have the audacity to publicly deny that there ever was a Holocaust?  Yet they still receive VIP treatment when visiting almost every country in the world.”

“And why is the world and the UN silent when they know that Hezbollah has stored thousands of rockets and missile launchers near hospitals and schools, deliberately putting their children in harm’s way?

“And when they know Christians in Kenya and Nigeria are being targeted and beheaded in bloody terrorist attacks…when Lebanese Christians, Muslims and their Jewish neighbors in Northern Israel are threatened by Iran’s terrorist reach and threatened by an uncaring world!

“We would be remiss if we did not publicly express our solidarity with all of these endangered communities.”

Rabbi Hier concluded his remarks by thanking Pope Francis for next month’s release of Vatican archives that will shed light on the controversy surrounding Pope Pius XII and the Shoah.

For more information, please contact the Center’s Communications Department, 310.772.2454.  Join the Center on Facebook, www.facebook.com/simonwiesenthalcenter, or follow @simonwiesenthal for news updates sent directly to your Twitter feed.

The Simon Wiesenthal Center is one of the largest international Jewish human rights organizations with over 400,000 member families in the United States. It is an NGO at international agencies including the United Nations, UNESCO, the OSCE, the OAS, the Council of Europe and the Latin American Parliament (Parlatino).

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FAIRFIELD— Formerly known as the Pinstripe Mass, this year’s Catholic Business Forum Mass and Brunch is sponsored by Fondazione Centesimus Annus Pro Pontifice (CAPP). The event is open to all business and professional leaders and will be held on February 9, 9 am at Fairfield University.

Bishop Frank J. Caggiano, assistant ecclesiastical counselor to CAPP in the United States, will be the main celebrant and homilist of the Mass.

Featured guest speaker Robert A. Nalewajek, executive vice president of CAPP-USA and past director of FCAPP-Vatican plans to speak on the topic: “Let’s Change the World—Catholic Social Teaching is the Way.”

At this year’s event, in addition to business leaders, invitations were sent out to all diocesan high schools, with the expectation that each school send around seven students and one facilitator to the event.  In addition, Fairfield University extended invitations to select students, faculty, administrators and trustees.

“Our Church calls on the laity to be God’s voice in the world,” comments Nalewajek. “It is our special task to order and throw light upon all the affairs of the world in line with the teachings of Jesus Christ. That is our unique and special mission,” he said.

“How can we do this?” Nalewajek poses the question. And the answer? — “Implementing Catholic social teaching in society.”

The purpose of the forum is threefold: educational-the integration of Catholic social teaching and business, formative-Catholic social teaching in action, and mentoring–students will be mentored by members of the CAPP community post-event.

Students will be given pre-read material and will be asked to come prepared with questions.  Post-event, the facilitators from each school will work with CAPP to assign a mentor to their group.

Students will be encouraged to meet with their facilitator and mentor post-event to discuss potential projects that could be proposed based on what they have learned.  If the facilitator believes a particular project has merit and would like to move forward with implementation, there may be an opportunity for the students to apply to Foundations in Faith for a grant up to $5,000 to help fund their project.

The ultimate goal of the forum is for local business leaders and students to make materially present Catholic social teaching in action within the local community.

“Our challenge as Catholics is to develop a strong, committed group of lay women and men, rich in faith and theologically prepared to be present in public life to explain, develop and implement Catholic Social Teaching,” says Nalewajek.

The morning will begin with a Mass in the Egan Chapel, celebrated by Bishop Frank J. Caggiano and will continue with brunch in the Oak Room.

The cost is $50 per person or $400 for a table of eight. Limited seating is available so register today at: www.bridgeportdiocese.org/CBF.

ROBERT A. NALEWAJEK 

Robert A. Nalewajek received his bachelor’s degree from Niagara University and his mater’s from the University of Southern California. He currently serves on the board of Catholic Charities of Fairfield County, is on the Steering Committee for the Bridgeport Diocese “Annual Appeal,” is a Knight of the Order of Malta (served on the American Association’s “Education and Defense of the Faith Committee”) and is a member of Legatus. Nalewajek led the US introduction of the Vatican based Fondazione Centesimus Annus Pro Pontifice and was subsequently elected a Director at the Vatican. Pope Francis bestowed on him the award of ‘Knight Commander’ of the “Pontifical Equestrian Order of St. Gregory the Great.” Bob is married to Dolly Nalewajek and they are parishioners of St. Catherine of Siena/St. Agnes parish in Greenwich. They have a son and daughter and are grandparents of four (and, hopefully, counting).

DANBURY—Catholic Charities of Fairfield County, Inc. offers a variety of mental health and counseling services throughout Fairfield County. With mental health counseling offices located in Norwalk and in Danbury, the nonprofit social services agency is providing therapeutic services to those impacted by behavioral health issues and those in need of support during difficult periods of their life.

In addition to basic counseling, the agency is also providing case management services. The Catholic Charities Community Support Program (CSP), funded by the Department of Mental Health & Addiction Services (DMHAS), is contracted to provide skill building and life skill services to adults with psychiatric disabilities in the Greater Danbury area. The program teaches, coaches and educates clients in the community about mental health and addiction issues. CSP is providing a myriad of services including, but not limited to: skill building, social integration into the community, clinical connections, medical treatment, substance abuse treatment, employment support, and education and rehabilitation services.

Also located in Danbury, New Heights is a wellness and recovery center. The program which is member run and member driven, offers classes, groups and seminars that address every aspect of emotional and physical wellness. This holistic programming includes classes such as food and nutrition, mindfulness, anger management, walking and positive thinking. Community meetings are held daily, during which members and staff come together to discuss announcements, issues, ideas and concerns.

These services are generally open to Catholic Charities’ clients only. However, Catholic Charities recognizes that sometimes expanding services is necessary in order to meet the needs of the community. According to CSP Director Charlie Coretto, “We realized that while we were supporting the individual impacted with mental health issues at an optimal level, our programs wanted to provide support to the family and loves ones that had a person in recovery. We have been providing “Family Night “to the greater Danbury Community for over 10 years to family members. It was through a recent client focus group that the idea was suggested to have two support groups run simultaneously.  We would continue the “Family Night “group geared toward loved ones and family members and then begin to run a “Client Family Night” for clients themselves. We wanted the people we serve to be able to be able to attend a peer group at the same time their loved ones attended their own “Family Night “group. There is a great need for a program that offers support to both groups here in the Danbury area. We have the ability to offer support groups that help our clients and their families to expand their knowledge base of resources and promote recovery through peer support, family, involvement and natural supports.

As a result, the Community Support Program, in conjunction with New Heights, is launching a new support group for people with mental health issues to run concurrently with the already running “Family Night” group.  Beginning in February, two groups will be facilitated simultaneously, one for the individual impacted with mental health issues and the other for the members of their support system – family and friends.  All are welcome!

If you would like more information on the Community Support Program, New Heights or the new Family Support Group, please contact Charlie Coretto at 203.748.0848 ext. 226 or ccoretto@ccfc-ct.org.

(For more information on all of the mental health services provided by Catholic Charities, visit the agency website at www.ccfairfield.org.)

Pictured: The Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial in Washington. A federal holiday that celebrates the life and accomplishments of the iconic civil rights leader, Martin Luther King, Jr. Day is observed Jan. 20 in 2020. (Credit: Gregory A. Shemitz/AP.)

WASHINGTON, D.C. – While the United States has “come a long way” in addressing racism and injustice, much more remains to be accomplished to achieve the dream of “the beloved community” envisioned by the late Rev. Martin Luther King Jr., the president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops said.

Archbishop Jose H. Gomez of Los Angeles urged the country to overcome still-entrenched racist beliefs and discriminatory practices in a statement released in Washington to mark the annual holiday honoring the civil rights leader, which this year falls on Jan. 20.

“We have come a long way in our country, but we have not come nearly far enough,” Gomez said in the statement issued Jan. 16 by the USCCB. “Too many hearts and minds are clouded by racist presumptions of privilege and too many injustices in our society are still rooted in racism and discrimination.”

The archbishop lamented that “too many” young African American men are killed across the nation or are “spending their best years behind bars.”

He called on citizens to recommit themselves to assuring that all people have equal opportunity to overcome what King called “lonely islands of poverty.”

Citing “disturbing outbreaks of racism and prejudice,” the archbishop raised concern about the rise in anti-Semitic attacks, displays of white nationalism and nativism, and violence against Hispanics and other immigrants.

“Such bigotry is not worthy of a great nation. As Catholics and as Americans, we must reject every form of racism and anti-Semitism,” he said.

“Racism is a sin that denies the truth about God and his creation, and it is a scandal that disfigures the beauty of America’s founding vision,” the statement continued. “In our 2018 pastoral letter on racism, my brother bishops and I stated: ‘What is needed, and what we are calling for, is a genuine conversion of heart, a conversion that will compel change and the reform of our institutions and society.’”

Gomez urged the country to honor Rev King’s memory by committing to building the “beloved community” the civil rights leader envisioned, “an America where all men and women are treated as children of God, made in his image and endowed with dignity, equality and rights that can never be denied, no matter the color of their skin, the language they speak or the place they were born.”

Published on cruxnow.com

Deacon Frank Chiappetta passed away at the age of 84, on Friday January 17, 2020 in Spring Hill Florida.

He is known to many in the diocese for his ministry as Deacon at St. Philip Parish in Norwalk and for his leadership of New Covenant House of Hospitality in Stamford from 1992 to 2001.

Deacon Chiappetta worked for years a corporate industrial designer before being ordained, and was also a talented icon artist. He is remembered as a man of deep faith and a strong commitment to serving those who were at risk and vulnerable.

In 1981, he was ordained a permanent deacon of the Diocese of Bridgeport by Bishop Walter W. Curtis. In 1992, Deacon Chiappetta completed work on a Masters in Counseling at Iona College. His internship program at Catholic Family Services in Norwalk brought him into the Catholic Charities system and ultimately led to his appointment as director of New Covenant House.

On the occasion of the 30th Anniversary of New Covenant House Deacon Chiappetta said that his experience at the soup kitchen changed his life and his notion of the poor. “I learned to see people in a different way. The gospel tells us the poor will always be with us, and some people will never be able to take care of themselves. But what interests me is how many of the poor can do better with a little help,” Deacon Chiappetta said at that time.

In Florida, a wake will be held on Thursday, January 23 beginning at 4:00 p.m. and ending with Vespers at 7:00 p.m., Mass will be celebrated on Friday January 24 at 11:00 a.m. at St. Frances Xavier Cabrini Church in Spring Hill, where Deacon Chiappetta also served as a Deacon.

In Connecticut, a wake will be held on Wednesday, January 29 beginning at 4:00 p.m. and ending with Vespers at 7:00 p.m., and Mass will be celebrated on Thursday, January 30 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Philip Church at One Father Conlon Place in Norwalk.

Please pray for the repose of the soul of Frank and for the consolation of his wife, Doris, and family.

Click for full obituary of Deacon Chiappetta.

RIVERSIDE—On Thursday, January 9, the Foundations in Education Spring Gala Committee and Honorees Lynn and Frank Mara met to kick off efforts to make the upcoming event on April 23 the most fun and successful to date! Hosted by Xandy and Jack Duffy at their Riverside home, the brainstorming session was led by Executive Director Holly Doherty-Lemoine and featured expert auctioneer Patrick Tully, board members and gala committee members.

The committee discussed gala goals, the event program, sponsorships and how to secure auction items that “can’t be picked off the shelf.”

The Spring Gala is Foundations in Education’s premier fundraising event. Gala proceeds benefit Foundations in Education including Bishop’s Scholarship Fund and Innovation and Leadership Grants. This year Foundations awarded 1,456 children more than $2,700,000 in tuition assistance to attend Catholic schools throughout the Bridgeport Diocese. The Foundation also made grants to teachers of more than $133,000 for innovative and leadership initiatives in our Catholic schools.

If you wish to volunteer, sponsor, contribute or learn more about Foundations in Education or the Gala, please visit www.foundationsineducation.org or contact Megan Quinn at 203.416.1671 or mquinn@foundationsineducation.org.

Pictured Left to right: Gerry Robilotti, Becky Shea, Jen St. Victor-de Pinho, Michael Shea, Frank and Lynn Mara, Jack and Xandy Duffy, Holly Doherty-Lemoine, Barbara Ripp, Megan Quinn, Joe Purcell and Auctioneer, Pat Tully.

TEXAS—”God’s work, our hands” is the motto used by the ten young adults and their parochial vicar, Father David Roman, who came to our diocese January 2-6 to work for Hurricane Harvey victims and the homeless in our diocese. They came here at the urging of Corpus Christi diocese’s seminarian Carlos De La Rosa, a good friend of Father Roman.

Led by Father David Roman, parochial vicar at St. Aloysius Parish in New Canaan, Connecticut, the group spent one day painting the exterior of a refurbished home outside of Refugio, another day working on three houses in the Rockport area. One home needed all its walls taken out and the work was done with great gusto using sledgehammers.

They also worked two days at the Mother Teresa Shelter in Corpus Christi where they prepared and served lunch and sorted out the warehouse and prepared various clothing items that were given away to Mother Teresa clients.

These young adults, the youngest age 18 and the oldest age 26, left the comfort of their homes in Connecticut to travel to south Texas to be the hands and feet of our Lord, to extend Christian charity to strangers and in return, receive the grace of new friendships.

They attended Mass every day and had time to enjoy our south Texas Tex-Mex and barbecue and made a pilgrimage to Nuestra Senora de San Juan in the Valley.

The folks at the Refugio Volunteer Center, at Hands of Hope in Rockport and at the Mother Teresa Shelter and their clients will forever remember these enthusiastic, dedicated and holy young men and women who sacrificed their time to travel here for the benefit of God’s people.

Pray for them that their lives be successful and that they’ll continue to do great things for the Lord and his people. May their work here be an inspiration for our south Texas community as we continue our efforts to help the victims of Hurricane Harvey in our Diocese.

Please call/text Deacon Richard Longoria at 361.446.2291 or email rlongoria@diocesecc.org to organize your volunteer group.

by Richard Longoria for STC

WASHINGTON — Archbishop José H. Gomez of Los Angeles, president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, has issued the following statement to mark the observance of Martin Luther King, Jr. Day on January 20, 2020.

Archbishop Gomez’s full statement follows:

“As our nation prepares to commemorate the life and witness of Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr., we are grateful for his courageous stand in solidarity with all who suffer injustice and his witness of love and nonviolence in the struggle for social change. But we are once again painfully aware that we are still far off from his dream for America, the ‘beloved community’ for which he gave his life.

“We have come a long way in our country, but we have not come nearly far enough. Too many hearts and minds are clouded by racist presumptions of privilege and too many injustices in our society are still rooted in racism and discrimination. Too many young African American men are still being killed in our streets or spending their best years behind bars. Many minority neighborhoods in this country are still what they were in Rev. King’s time, what he called ‘lonely islands of poverty.’ Let us recommit ourselves to ensuring opportunity reaches every community.

“In recent years, we have seen disturbing outbreaks of racism and prejudice against other groups. There has been a rise of anti-Semitic attacks and also ugly displays of white nationalism, nativism, and violence targeting Hispanics and other immigrants. Such bigotry is not worthy of a great nation. As Catholics and as Americans, we must reject every form of racism and anti-Semitism.

“Racism is a sin that denies the truth about God and his creation, and it is a scandal that disfigures the beauty of America’s founding vision. In our 2018 pastoral letter on racism, my brother bishops and I stated: ‘What is needed, and what we are calling for, is a genuine conversion of heart, a conversion that will compel change and the reform of our institutions and society.’

“Let us honor the memory of Rev. King by returning to what he called ‘the best in the American dream and the most sacred values in our Judeo-Christian heritage.’ Let us commit ourselves once more to building his ‘beloved community,’ an America where all men and women are treated as children of God, made in his image and endowed with dignity, equality, and rights that can never be denied, no matter the color of their skin, the language they speak, or the place they were born.”

The U.S. Bishops’ 2018 pastoral letter on racism, “Open Wide Your Hearts: The Enduring Call of Love,” and other resources from the Ad Hoc Committee on Racism can be found at: http://www.usccb.org/issues-and-action/human-life-and-dignity/racism/index.cfm.

Originally published by the USCCB

FAIRFIELD—Fairfield University Art Museum announces the upcoming exhibition Archives of Consciousness: 6 Cuban Artists, opening January 24 and closing May 15, 2020. Featuring recent works by internationally renowned artists of Cuba’s post-Soviet era, this exhibit invites us to witness the struggles and experiences of life in Cuba’s revolutionary society. Together, they illuminate the many ways in which artists stand at the forefront of debate, challenge, and critique of a Communist state that has survived six decades of US hostility – in part by regulating personal freedom and banning dissent. At a time when the United States has withdrawn from the unprecedented opening in US-Cuba diplomatic relations achieved under President Obama (2014-2016), this exhibit speaks to the myriad ways in which systems of power exert control over human efforts to create greater equality and mutual understanding. Through images that regularly converge and, at times, conflict, six participating artists question the boundaries of liberation achieved so far, not only in Cuba, but in every modern society, including our own. Their works interrogate how gendered, racial, sexual, religious, commercial, technological and even entrepreneurial mythologies inhabit our identities and influence our destinies.

Featured in the Fairfield University Art Museum’s exhibition are pieces by Roberto Diago, Manuel Mendive, Eduardo Roca (“Choco”), Abel Barroso, Mabel Poblet, and Luis Enrique Camejo. Representing different generations of artists raised in the culture and evolving process of the Cuban Revolution, their works strike a dialogue across decades of memory and the increasingly paradoxical formula of liberation through authoritarian, one-party rule that has defined Cuba since 1959. With subtle precision, humor, drama, wit, and spectacle, these artists document the complex feelings and angles from which citizens experienced the Cuban government’s shift from an intransigent commitment to Communist culture and a socialist economy to the now thirty-year-long period of state-directed capitalism and continuing Castro family rule (1992-2019).

Against captivating grids of calming ocean hues, Diago depicts the internal space of the mind and the honesty of the individual soul as separate from the theoretically homogeneous collective and pressures of external expectation. Using apparently simple, geometric pieces of deeply woven textiles and wooden planks, he contests the alienation of isolation, creating sanctuaries in nostalgia, knowledge, and the soul. Evoking the heritage of a shared slave past, the master printmaker Choco infuses sculptures and collagraphs (prints produced by inking and pressing textured materials on plates) with references to the particularly intense political scrutiny to which Afro-descended Cubans have historically found themselves subject for national inclusion. Through the recrafting of photographs into objects, images, and three-dimensional art, Mabel Poblet repurposes the conventions of female subjugation in Cuban history to target the act of complicity with patriarchy. With a steady, contemplative gaze, Poblet examines the pain that women’s reduction into mere aesthetic objects of pleasure renders their possibilities.

By contrast, the evocative painter Luis Enrique Camejo looks at urban landscapes, virtually devoid of people, to explore the impact of contemporary dependence on cars, commodities and technology on one’s sense of self, place, and power. In linking politically taboo thoughts of a renewed Cuba “after the flood” to global concerns about climatic catastrophes, Camejo visually recasts the roads of Havana’s now aged, once swanky urban center of La Rampa; a glass-walled shopping mall, Soviet trucks and cars become meditations on the meaning and acceptability of modernity. Likewise, with equal measures of humor and specific historical references to Cuba’s slow, government-controlled entrance into twenty-first-century technologies, Abel Barroso explores the fantasies of freedom that unprecedented communication and global access to information grant only highly privileged Cubans. Known for his whimsical wooden sculptures and intricate collages composed of hundreds of pencil shavings, Barroso’s vision also applies more generally to “first world” societies whose citizens can afford to travel, wield a cell phone, and not emigrate—but visit, enjoy, and return. Mendive, one of Cuba’s legendary artists, encodes his commentaries and the consciousness of artistic protagonists in the light, colors and beliefs of Regla de Ocha, or Santería. In works that range from mixed media sculptures to vivid paintings with applied natural objects, Mendive transforms marginality into narratives; spirituality serves as a protagonist.

Drawn from the personal collection of Terri and Steven Certilman, the works of these six artists speak to the many lives that Cubans have led and the ways in which disillusionment, pain, isolation, protest, beauty, healing, and the spiritual mind form the documents of a resilient collective consciousness. As a living archive of thoughts and aspirations, this art enables us to reflect on the essences and emotions that make up the contradictions of our lives and explore the strength that comes from challenge and reflection on such contradictions. Curated by historian of Cuba Lillian Guerra and art historian and independent curator Arianne Faber Kolb, Archives of Consciousness offers a timely opportunity to meditate on the lessons derived as much from Cuba’s exceptional political and social history as from its citizens’ will to survive, contest, and endure.

In conjunction with the exhibition, and with the assistance of faculty liaison, Dr. Michelle Farrell, the Fairfield University Art Museum has organized a full roster of public programs.

Thursday, January 23, 5 p.m.
Opening Night Lecture: Archives of Consciousness: 6 Cuban Artists

Dr. Lillian Guerra, Curator of the Exhibition
Professor, Department of History, University of Florida, Gainesville.

Quick Center, Wien Experimental Theatre

Thursday, January 23, 6-7:30 p.m.

Opening Reception: Archives of Consciousness: 6 Cuban Artists

(artist Mabel Poblet will be in attendance) Music by Ariacne Trujillo Durand
Quick Center, Lobby and Walsh Gallery

Friday, February 7, 1-4 p.m.

Panel: Cuba Today: Internet access, El Paquete, and the New Filmmakers 1:00-2:15 p.m.
Organized and facilitated by Michelle Farrell, PhD

Javier Labrador Deulofeu, Cuban Filmmaker

Yaima Pardo, Cuban Filmmaker and Internet Activist

Julia Weist, Artist

Michelle Farrell, PhD., Associate Professor, Fairfield University 

Coffee break: 2:15-2:45

Film Screening – Selection of Cuban Short Films 2:45-4:00 p.m.

Followed by a Roundtable Conversation

DiMenna-Nyselius Library, Multimedia Room

Thursday, February 13, 5 p.m.

Film Screening: Wheel of Life (Patchwork Films, 2015, running time 15 minutes) followed by
Dance Class: Learn the Casino (The Cuban dance that launched the salsa) with instructor Victoria Harel. Organized by Michelle Farrell, PhD.

Quick Center, Wien Experimental Theatre

Wednesday, February 26, 5 p.m.
Lecture: The Art of Manuel Mendive*

Barbaro Martinez-Ruiz, PhD., Associate Professor, Department of Art History,
Indiana University

Quick Center, Wien Experimental Theatre

Thursday, April 2, 5 p.m.
Lecture: The Art of Black Mobilization: Afro-Latin American Artists, History and Racial Justice *
Alejandro de la Fuente, PhD., Robert Woods Bliss Professor of Latin American History and Economics, Professor of African and African American Studies, Harvard University

DiMenna-Nyselius Library, Multimedia Room

Thursday, April 9, 11 a.m.

Art in Focus: Manuel Mendive Hoyo, Eleguá Feeds Me (Eleguá me alimenta), 1996

Quick Center, Walsh Gallery

Thursday, April 23, 5 p.m.

Gallery Talk: Collecting Cuban Art, with Steve Certilman

Quick Center, Walsh Gallery

Tuesday, April 28, 7-9 p.m.

Drawing Party: Archives of Consciousness: 6 Cuban Artists
Quick Center, Walsh Gallery

*Part of the Edwin L. Weisl, Jr. Lectureships in Art History, funded by the Robert Lehman Foundation

All events and programs are free and open to the public but registration is requested, and strongly encouraged. www.fairfield.edu, or www.fuam.eventbrite.com.

(For more information visit our bi-lingual exhibition website: www.fairfield.edu/cuba.)

Photo: Manuel Mendive Hoyo, Yesterday Afternoon (Ayer Por la Tarde), 2018Acrylic on canvas Collection of Steven and Terry Certilman.

Mary Felice had recently been accepted into medical school at SUNY Health Science Center at Syracuse when she went to a parish mission and heard an elderly priest talk about giving his life to God. It was an encounter that would change her forever.

“I felt like I got a glimpse of God through him,” she recalled. “I had never met anyone like him before.”

During Eucharistic adoration at the church in upstate New York, she asked God if she could have some of what she saw in Father Albert Shamon and she received an invitation from Christ, a very real call, to give her life to him in a religious vocation. At 24, she thought she had her life planned with a career in medicine, so she was surprised by Jesus’ invitation. She wasn’t entirely sure she welcomed it, but she couldn’t deny the deep peace it gave her.

“I could see that God had been inviting me for many years, but his call was drowned out by worldly distractions, the noise and the activities,” she recalled.

Today, Sister Mary Felice belongs to the Daughters of Charity and is the medical director at St. Vincent the Servant General Reference Hospital in Lukolela, a remote village of 22,000 people on the Congo River in one of the poorest areas of the world. Her community of sisters is responsible for the 120-bed hospital, which serves an area of 7000 square miles and a population of more than 168,500 people, most of whom live in houses without running water and electricity and are made of clay bricks with dirt floors and palm branches for roofs. The people subsist on less than one dollar a day.

While she was in medical school, Sister Mary began to explore different religious orders and learned about the Daughters of Charity while she was doing rotations at Lourdes Hospital in Binghamton. She eventually began the process of joining the community while she was doing her residency in internal medicine through the University of Rochester.

After completing her novitiate, she moved to Bridgeport and worked for five years in the outreach department of St. Vincent’s Medical Center, founded by the Daughters of Charity.

“During those years, I also worked in youth ministry at St. Augustine’s Cathedral Parish and hoped to provide young people an avenue to give God his proper place in their lives, just as God had provided for me by some undeserved grace,” she said.

From the beginning, she felt God was calling her to do missionary work, and after ten years in the community, she was sent to the order’s Missionary Center at the motherhouse in France to study French and tropical medicine. She was eventually assigned to the Province in the Democratic Republic of the Congo, where she has been for 13 years. The Congo Province has 100 sisters, two-thirds of whom are native Congolese and reside in 16 houses. Worldwide, the order has 16,700 sisters in 95 countries.

Sister Mary lives with seven others from her community, who staff the hospital, parish, school and social services along with lay assistants. Because of the poor roads, patients often travel by boat to reach the hospital, which is 91 miles from the nearest city and 310 miles from the capital. If the conditions cooperate, the trip can take a day.

The hospital provides emergency services, internal medicine, obstetrics and gynecology, surgery, pediatrics and intensive care. It is equipped to do basic operations, such as appendectomies, hernia surgery, cesarean sections, laparotomies and bowel repairs.

They do not have the equipment to take X-rays but offer ultra-sound scanning. A lab helps them diagnose tropical diseases. The most common diagnoses are malaria and anemia, along with hemolysis (rupture of red blood cells) caused by malaria, typhoid fever, tuberculosis, HIV, amebiasis, malnutrition and obstetrics emergencies. In 2018 there were 6820 patient visits, 3876 hospitalizations, 616 major surgeries and 154 caesarean births.

Obstetrical emergencies are common and the women often travel long distances to reach the hospital. Sister recalls one emergency in which a woman was transported by boat at night for 10 miles. She was suffering from heavy bleeding during labor and was unconscious with no detectable blood pressure when she arrived. They brought her to the operating room and started a transfusion while Sister Mary sought blood donors.

“At one point when I left the operating room, her husband was waiting for me and asked if she was going to live, and I told him that is what we were praying to God for,” she recalled. “Many weeks later, as I was leaving the hospital, a man approached me and asked if I remembered him, but I didn’t. He was the one who asked me if his wife was going to live, and he was coming to bring her home. For those types of cases, we just thank God because she could easily have died.”

Many children with severe malaria arrive comatose or with severe anemia and need a blood transfusion, she said. They are hospitalized in the Intensive Care and Stabilization Department for a few days and then transferred to pediatrics. Because the building is small and very crowded, during the peak malaria seasons there are often two to three children per bed while others stay on a mattress on the floor.

A new Intensive Care and Stabilization building is under construction, which will help ameliorate the problem, she said. However, some of the hospital buildings are old and in poor condition and too small to accommodate the demand.

“We are looking ahead to our next project, which is to build a new Internal Medicine Department because our current buildings are old with leaky ceilings and crowded,” Sister said. “We don’t have enough isolation rooms for infectious diseases like tuberculosis, measles, monkeypox, diphtheria, tetanus and cholera. And there aren’t enough rooms for our psychiatric patients.”

The plans for the new facility call for 10 beds for women, 10 beds for men and four private rooms and a separate building that provides isolation rooms and rooms for psychiatric patients. The estimated cost for the project is $88,500, which the Sisters are trying to raise through donations. (For more information about St. Vincent the Servant General Reference Hospital or to make a donation toward the construction of the new Internal Medicine Department, visit congoriverjourney.org.)

“We try to provide the best treatment possible for the people at the lowest cost possible, but the reality is patients often struggle to pay their bills, and many leave without paying,” Sister said. “We have a special program to help those who are truly poor, and no one is turned away because of their inability to pay. If possible, family members participate by doing some needed work in the hospital in exchange for care.”

Every day she comes face to face with the extreme poverty of the Congo, especially when she walks through the village.

“In the beginning, I would find myself feeling sad, but I didn’t understand why,” she said. “When I reflected on it, I realized it was the pain caused by seeing the living conditions. I realized I will never be able to make sense of the poverty or solve it, but I can do the small part that God has given me, with courage, and I must put the things that are beyond me in his hands.”

Even though the region suffers from deprivation, the people find meaning in simple pleasures and joys. One day while Sister was cleaning out her office, she found several toothbrushes and decided to give them to the first person she met, who happened to be the night watchman.

“He came to me the next evening to thank me and say his children were so happy that they sang and danced when he gave them the toothbrushes,” Sister said.

Despite their poverty and lack of luxuries such as television and radio, the people are joyful because of “their closeness, trust and reliance on God.” They also have a great appreciation for things that others take for granted like simple clothing, an umbrella and soap.

On New Year’s Eve morning, the hospital held its annual party for the staff. “What I love is that it’s so simple and so joyful,” Sister said. “We thank God for the accomplishments during the year and ask his blessings on what we hope to accomplish in the new year. We play some games, sing, dance, and each employee receives a gift — a kilogram of rice, a kilogram of dried beans and a calendar. This year they also were given two bars of soap.”

When people ask Sister Mary if she is happy in her work, she tells them, “I am happy because I feel I’m doing God’s will for me. They also ask me what I’ve learned from living here. I have given up trying to make sense of the extreme poverty I see each day, but by being in situations that are beyond my understanding, I’ve learned the importance of relying on God’s grace moment to moment and to know and trust more in his deep love for each of us.”

The charism of the Daughters of Charity is “the service of Christ in the poor” and the order’s founder, St Vincent de Paul, believed you can see God’s presence in the poor.

“That is what keeps me here,” Sister Mary said. “The poor have an inherent humility, simplicity and faith in God. It is a privilege to live and work among them, and I feel that when I am close to them, I am close to God.”

By Joe Pisani

DANBURY- Immaculate High School is pleased to announce that Bishop Frank Caggiano has appointed Wendy Neil of Redding as Principal. Ms. Neil has served as Interim Principal since July 2019 and before that, she was a teacher and program leader at Immaculate High School.

Neil began teaching AP US Government, International Relations and Social Studies at Immaculate in 2013. She also continues to lead the school’s Model UN and Mock Trial teams, is the IHS Social Studies Department Chair, is a member of the Diocese of Bridgeport’s Innovative Teacher Committee, and has served as a lead member on an Immaculate High School self-observation committee that helped Immaculate receive New England Association of Schools and Colleges (NEASC) accreditation in 2019.  A talented and committed educator and administrator, Mrs. Neil is dedicated to providing students an excellent Catholic faith-based and college preparatory educational experience.

“I am very honored to be named Immaculate High School’s Principal; I am happy to serve our school and faith, and I look forward to continuing to work with Immaculate’s excellent faculty and staff, wonderful parents and especially our amazing students,” said Ms. Neil. “Immaculate High School is a unique place that emphasizes faith-based values and compassion as well as a modern college-preparatory education, and I am excited to be part of the team that nurtures our students and prepares them for the future,” she added. 

Mrs. Neil began her teaching career in 1994 and earned a Bachelor’s degree in Secondary Education and a Bachelor’s degree in History, Magna Cum Laude, from Springfield College. She holds a Master of Arts in Educational Leadership and Policy Studies from Virginia Polytechnic Institute. She brings a perspective as a parent, teacher and administrator to Immaculate High School — Ms. Neil is the parent of two alumni, J. Bailey Bellone ‘17 and Colby Bellone ‘19, and current sophomores Allie Bellone and Chloe Bellone. 

“As a well-respected visionary leader, Ms. Neil has established networks of collaboration that support our school’s compelling mission, academic excellence and operational vitality. Her effective school leadership and commitment to our students, teachers and parents is immeasurable. The school community is very blessed to have Ms. Neil serve as our new school Principal,” said Mary R. Maloney, President of Immaculate High School. 

Immaculate High School encourages students to find success in academics, athletics, fine arts and clubs and is ranked in the top ten of all Catholic high schools in the State of Connecticut by NICHE. One of the more affordable private high schools, Immaculate High School is also among the highest-ranked Catholic high schools in the Diocese of Bridgeport and continues to attain the highest SAT scores in the Diocese. Immaculate High School students, a representation of area public, private and Catholic schools, seek academic challenges, discover leadership and engage in progressive learning opportunities and have high success rates: 100% of the Class of 2019 were accepted to choice colleges and universities and were awarded college scholarships and grants totaling $27 million. 

In addition to a college-preparatory academic program that offers over 33 Advanced Placement classes and a STEAM curriculum featuring advanced technology, a CISCO certification program, renovated science labs and engineering classes and a Certified Nursing Associate program, Immaculate High School has an award-winning Fine Arts program, a student career internship program, athletic teams that have won SWC and State Championships, 44 clubs and a Campus Ministry and community service program that instills faith, compassion and reverence for others. Immaculate High School, founded in 1962, is a private, non-profit Catholic college-preparatory institution serving students from 28 communities in Connecticut and New York.