Formation is a life-long period of accompaniment. The Diaconate Formation Program supports the vocation and ministry of the deacon, beginning at the earliest stage of discernment through his journey to ordination and beyond. Our program is structured around the four pillars of human, spiritual, academic, and pastoral dimensions of formation as defined in the National Directory for the Formation, Ministry and Life of Permanent Deacons in the United States.
Diaconal formation is a lifelong process by which a person is molded into the image of Jesus the servant. It involves not only academic studies, but also one’s prayer life, values, daily witness, self-understanding and ministry. It's up to each individual who is called by God, to recognize and respond generously to the Lord’s invitation.
All men applying to enter diaconate formation must be fully initiated members of the Catholic Church (baptized, confirmed and have received Holy Communion). In addition, all men who have received full initiation into the Catholic Church through the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA ), must wait at least five years before applying for the diaconate.
Applicants must be between 35 and 60 years old.
All married inquirers should be part of a stable and loving Catholic marriage for no less than five years before applying. (Any potential applicants who may be experiencing serious difficulties in their marriage should postpone applying for the diaconate until those issues are completely resolved.) Their marriage must also be canonically valid and a Catholic certificate must be made available. All married inquirers must also obtain written consent from their wives before being admitted into Aspirancy.
All single men who seek entry into diaconal formation must remain celibate throughout their formation process, and for the rest of their lives. No exemption is granted for this rule; therefore, all single men must have a clear understanding of the celibate life they are call to live.
All inquirers should have sufficient financial and employment stability throughout the entire formation process. The applicant may be asked to submit proof of stable employment. If a potential applicant is experiencing some form of hardship or lack of employment during the time of his admission process, he will be asked to postpone his application request to resolve his situation before being considered for admissions into the program.
All inquirers must be American citizens, permanent residents or possess an appropriate visa that allows them to be legally present in the United States. All Inquirers must also have a valid social security number before applying for Aspirancy. All diaconal aspirants/candidates must have legal status in the United States before admissions into diaconate formation. Further, the diocese will not sponsor any potential candidates for immigration status.
All Inquirers must receive the written recommendation of their pastor before beginning the admission process into Aspirancy.
All Inquirers must have a substantial record of parochial service before entering Aspirancy. This is defined as active involvement in the parochial life and ministries of his parish for a minimum of three years.
All Inquirers must be high school graduates or have earned an equivalent, either in the United States or their native country. Some college background is also preferred. Proof of High School completion, college studies, degrees or transcripts obtained either in United States or abroad must be submitted with their application.
Continuing The Journey
As discernment progresses, the "call" to the diaconate is confirmed when the candidate realizes that his heart and mind come together not only within himself, but also between him, the formation program, and the Church. The basic academic portion of our program will be fulfilled at St. Joseph Seminary - Dunwoodie. This allows our men to pursue a Master's Degree which is strongly encouraged. Monthly theological courses are taken within the Diocese of Bridgeport, generally on weekends. These weekends will serve to foster increased spiritual growth and discernment, and provide additional support.
Meet Deacon Jerry Lambert
Coordinator of Diaconate Office and Formation
Deacon Jerry was born in Kankakee, Illinois, and grew up on a farm in the Midwest. After graduating from Southern Illinois University, he went on to work in Corporate America, primarily in the Insurance and Healthcare industries where he managed large customer service centers for CIGNA and The Hartford. He later opened his own consulting business. Dn. Jerry was ordained in 2011, and now spends full-time working for the Church. He was first assigned to St. Mary Parish, Ridgefield, and has recently been reassigned to St. Theresa Parish, Trumbull. Dn. Jerry and his wife Jane, live in Wilton and have been married for 46 years. They have two grown children and three grandchildren.
Meet Deacon Tim Bolton
Coordinator of Diaconate Vocations
Deacon Tim was born in Providence, Rhode Island moved to Connecticut in 1974. After graduating from Fairfield University he went on to work in the millwork industry for 30 years. He was ordained in 2006 and in 2011 left to pursue a new career in healthcare, in hospital chaplaincy. He is now the Manager of the Pastoral Care Department at St. Vincent’s Medical Center, received a Masters degree in Religious Studies from Sacred Heart University, is a nationally Board Certified Chaplain, and also a Certified Spiritual Director in Ignatian Spirituality. He has served as deacon at St. James Parish in Stratford and is now assigned to St. Vincent’s Medical Center. He and his wife Mary Ellen have been married for 36 years, live in Trumbull, have 4 adult children and 4 grandchildren.
Meet Deacon Deacon John DiTaranto
Coordinator of Diaconate Continuing Formation
Deacon John was born in the Bronx, NY. After graduating from Manhattan College with a Degree in Engineering, he spent most of his career working with General Electric in a number of different leadership roles in a variety of GE businesses, coming to Connecticut after spending 2+ years in Florence, Italy integrating a newly acquired business into GE. Deacon John was ordained in 2008 and has since left GE and has become an independent Leadership Consultant supporting the Catholic Leadership Institute in Wayne, PA. He has recently served as the Assistant to the Director of Safe Environment and is currently the Chaplain of Notre Dame High School in Fairfield. He has served as deacon at St. Jude Parish in Monroe and is now assigned to St. Stephen Parish in Trumbull as Deacon and Our Lady of Good Counsel in Bridgeport as their Pastoral Administrator. He and his wife Maureen have been married for 25 years, live in Monroe, have 4 adult children.
Meet Michelle Rowe
Administrative Assistant to the Diaconate Program
Michelle Rowe was born in Portland, Maine and moved to CT in 1976. After graduating from Stonehill College, she volunteered to teach in the Dominican Republic for the Mother Cabrini Corp. In January 2001, Michelle completed a Master’s Degree in Education from St. Joseph University. Michelle has taught at Rochambeau Middle School, St. Joseph High School and St. Mary’s School. She is a volunteer at St. Theresa Church, Our Lady of Fatima Adoration Chapel, President of the Lay Dominican affiliate at St. Theresa Church and volunteer bookkeeper at Sts. Cyril and Methodius Church. She and her husband, TR, are parishioners of Sts. Cyril and Methodius Church, live in Trumbull with their 4 children and have been married for 19 years.