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FAIRFIELD—Rev. Gregory Boyle, S.J., of Homeboy Industries has been invited to Fairfield University to present the third annual Canisius Academy Lecture. His talk, “Barking to the Choir: The Power of Radical Kinship,” will take place on Wednesday, November 13 at 7:30 pm in Egan Chapel of St. Ignatius Loyola.
In his lecture, Fr. Boyle will share how compassion, kindness, and kinship are the keys to breaking the cycle of despair and marginalization in communities torn apart by gang violence. His stories and parables will be a reminder to listeners that no life is less valuable than another.
The idea of fighting crime with radical kinship – not punishment – came to Fr. Boyle after witnessing the devastating impact of gang violence on his East Los Angeles neighborhood. He saw the futility of criminal justice policies such as suppression and mass incarceration and teamed up with members of his parish and community to find an alternative solution. His approach was viewed as radical at the time: treat gang members as human beings.
In 1988, Homeboy Industries was launched as a way to help men and women redirect their lives and become contributing members of the East L.A. community. Thirty-one years later, it has become a blueprint for more than 400 rehab and reentry programs around the world.
Homeboy Industries employs and trains high-risk youths, former gang members, and the recently incarcerated in a range of social enterprises. It also provides critical educational, vocational, mental health, and legal services to thousands of men and women who walk through its doors every year seeking a better life.
Fr. Boyle is a recipient of the California Peace Prize and a member of the California Hall of Fame. The White House named him a 2014 Champion of Change. In 2017, he received the University of Notre Dame’s Laetare Medal, awarded annually to an American Catholic “whose genius has ennobled the arts and sciences, illustrated the ideals of the Church and enriched the heritage of humanity.”
Father Boyle is the author of the 2010 New York Times bestseller, Tattoos on the Heart: The Power of Boundless Compassion. His Nov. 13 lecture is named for his 2017 book, the Los Angeles Times bestseller Barking to the Choir: The Power of Radical Kinship. This lecture is free and open to the public.
(For more information, contact Mary Crimmins<mailto:mcrimmins@fairfield.edu> at 203.254.4000 ext. 2097.).

DANBURY– Immaculate High School students and faculty came together for a Veterans Prayer Service and Tribute to honor all veterans who gave so much to protect our freedoms and safety. The IHS band and choir performed patriotic music honoring all military branches.

The names of the veterans from the Immaculate family were read and students processed with flags bearing those veterans names to our Hill of Honor, where they will be displayed until November 15.

A special thank you to alumnus Tom Saadi ‘88, Commissioner of the Connecticut Department of Veterans Affairs, for attending and speaking to the students and faculty. Immaculate presented a check from flag donations to support programs at the CT Department of Veterans Affairs.

Immaculate High Schools offers over 33 Advanced Placement classes and a STEAM curriculum featuring advanced technology, a CISCO certification program, renovated science labs and engineering classes and a Certified Nursing Associate program. It also has an award-winning Fine Arts program, a student career internship program, athletic teams that have won SWC and State Championships, 44 clubs and a Campus Ministry and community service program that instills faith, compassion and reverence for others. Founded in 1962, Immaculate is a private, non-profit Catholic college-preparatory institution serving students from 28 communities in Connecticut and New York.

Immaculate High School is located at 73 Southern Blvd, Danbury, CT 06810. On the web: www.immaculatehs.org

Bunny Rodriguez is exhausted and emotionally drained. It’s been nearly a month since her father went missing from his Middletown home.

“I have children. They do miss their Pop Pop so that’s very hard each day too to tell them, I’m still looking and they’re hopeful,” said Rodriguez during an emotional news conference today in Bridgeport.

Her father, 59-year-old Peter Recchia, was last seen October 3. He was seen on surveillance video walking in New Haven. He’s also been seen in Durham and Hamden. However, it’s been weeks since has last sighting.

“I hope he’s with a family that took him in,” added Rodriguez. “I hope he didn’t get any farther than New Haven.”

Recchia was last seen wearing a blue shirt, blue jeans and has rectangular eye glasses. He is 5-foot-11 and weighs about 150 pounds.

Middletown police issued a Silver Alert on October 7 and have handled the investigation, but say they have no new leads. The Recchia family says they’ve been informed by police they do not have the resources to continue a full-scale search.

The search for Recchia has been aided by Lamar Advertising, which has donated four digital billboards to help build awareness. The billboards, which were designed in concert with Middletown police, went up October 23.

The family is asking people to search their own private surveillance videos and keeping a keen lookout for anyone who might fit Peter’s description.

“We want to beg the public to feel the desperation that we feel,” said Frank Recchia, the missing man’s brother.

Frank Recchia is a television reporter at News 12 Connecticut and says this story is like many he’s covered and he’s come to accept it may end tragically.

“If Peter is dead, we still want to bring him home,” Frank said. “We need to regain the calm that comes with closure.”

With that, that family is raising funds, hoping to hire a private investigator and it will continue the search no matter how long it takes.

Police are asking for help finding Recchia and ask anyone with information to call Detective Jimmy Lacasse at 860-638-4134.

By Michael Massaro | NBC

Vatican City, Nov 9, 2019 / 06:40 am (CNA).- When theology and philosophy engage with cultures in creative ways, they become a powerful tool for renewing humanity with the Word of God, Pope Francis said Saturday, during the awarding of the 2019 Ratzinger Prize.

“This is true for all cultures: access to redemption for humanity in all of its dimensions should be sought with creativity and imagination,” the pope said Nov 9.

He quoted St. Paul VI’s apostolic exhortation Evangelii Nuntiandi, which says, “Evangelizing means bringing the Good News into all the strata of humanity, and through its influence transforming humanity from within and making it new.”

“It is a duty for theology to be and remain in active dialogue with cultures, even as they change over time and evolve differently in various parts of the world,” he said. “It is a condition necessary for the vitality of Christian faith, for the Church’s mission of evangelization.”

“All the arts and disciplines,” Francis said, “thus cooperate in contributing to the full growth of the human person, which is to be found ultimately in the encounter with the living person of Jesus Christ, the incarnate Logos, the revelation of the God who is love.”

Pope Francis addressed members of the Joseph Ratzinger-Benedict XVI Foundation in the Vatican’s apostolic palace during the award ceremony for the 2019 edition of the prestigious Ratzinger Prize.

The Ratzinger Prize was begun in 2011 to recognize scholars whose work demonstrates a meaningful contribution to theology or philosophy in the spirit of Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger, the Bavarian theologian who became Benedict XVI.

The winners of the 2019 prize are Catholic intellectual Charles Taylor and Jesuit priest and theologian, Fr. Paul Béré.

Béré is the first African to win the prestigious Ratzinger Prize. A lecturer at the Pontifical Biblical Institute, he received the prize for his work on the figure of the prophet Joshua.

From Burkina Faso, Béré spoke in September on the need for an “Africanness” within the Catholic approach to addressing regional problems.

“Africa can find a solution to all its problems within, what we [Africans] simply need is the slightest desire to share the solutions across the continent,” Beré told ACI Africa Sept. 28 at the Nairobi tri-party conference on the status of the evangelization mission in Africa.

Beré is a member of several African theological associations and of the Anglican-Roman Catholic International Commission (ARCIC). He has also participated as an expert in several synods of bishops.

After the announcement that he had won the prize, he told Vatican News: “I think this is an encouragement for all theological work done in Africa.”

Pope Francis Nov. 9 praised Beré as a “renowned scholar of Sacred Scripture” and he expressed his appreciation and encouragement for all those who are “committed to inculturation of the faith in Africa through their original and deepened study.”

Contemporary African theology is still young, but it is “dynamic and full of promise,” the pope said. “Father Béré provides an example of this by his work on the interpretation of Old Testament texts in a context of oral culture, thus bringing to fruition the experience of African culture.”

Dr. Charles Taylor, 88, is an award-winning Canadian Catholic philosopher, who has taught at Oxford and at the University of Montreal and McGill University.

His focus has been in the areas of history of philosophy, most especially political philosophy and the philosophy of social science. One of Taylor’s many notable contributions was to the topics of religion, modernity, and secularization.

“During his years of active research and teaching, Professor Taylor has covered many fields, but he has particularly devoted his mind and heart to understanding the phenomenon of secularization in our time,” Francis noted.

“Secularization effectively poses a significant challenge for the Catholic Church, indeed for all Christians, and for all believers in God,” he said, adding that a priority of Benedict XVI’s pontificate was to “proclaim God anew” during a time “when that proclamation seems to be on the wane for a large part of humanity.”

The pope said, “few scholars in the present day have posed the problem of secularization with the breadth of vision as has Professor Taylor.”

“We are indebted to him for the profound manner in which he has treated the problem, carefully analyzing the development of Western culture, the movements of the human mind and heart over time, identifying the characteristics of modernity in their complex relationships, in their shadows and lights.”

Taylor’s work invites Catholics to seek “new ways to live and express the transcendent dimensions of the human soul,” he continued, which allows them to engage with secularization in the West “in a way that is neither superficial nor given to fatalistic discouragement.”

“This is needed not only for a reflection on contemporary culture, but also for an in-depth dialogue and discernment in order to adopt the spiritual attitudes suitable for living, witnessing, expressing, and proclaiming the faith in our time,” he stated.

Despite coming from very different backgrounds and continents, the two honorees of the 2019 Ratzinger Prize have dedicated themselves to seeking “the way to God and the encounter with Christ,” Francis said.

“This,” he added, “is the mission of all who follow the teaching of Joseph Ratzinger as theologian and Pope, to be “‘co-workers of the truth.’”

The honorees of the Ratzinger Prize are chosen by Pope Francis, based upon the recommendations of a committee composed of Bishop Rudolf Voderholzer of Regensburg and Cardinals Angelo Amato, Kurt Koch, Gianfranco Ravasi, and Luis Ladaria, who are heads of offices in the Roman Curia.

Pope Francis said Nov. 9, that “we are all grateful” for the teaching of Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI, “and for his exemplary service to the Church, demonstrated by his reflections, his thought and study, his listening, dialogue and prayer.”

“His aim was that we might consciously retain a lively faith despite the changing times and situations; and that believers could give an account of their faith in a language that can be understood by their contemporaries, entering into dialogue with them, together seeking pathways of authentic encounter with God in our time,” he said.

“This has always been a keen desire of Joseph Ratzinger the theologian and pastor, who never closed himself off in a disembodied culture of pure concepts, but gave us the example of seeking truth where reason and faith, intelligence and spirituality, are constantly integrated.”

By Hannah Brockhaus | CNA

STAMFORD- A Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and author, Moses will deliver a talk on Mother Cabrini and her message on Sunday, November 17, following a Mass celebrated in Italian by Bishop Frank J. Caggiano at 10 a.m. at Sacred Heart Church in Stamford.

Moses is also author of The Saint and the Sultan: The Crusades, Islam and Francis of Assisi’s Mission of Peace (Doubleday 2009), which won the Catholic Press Association award for the year’s best history book and became the basis for the Emmy-nominated PBS docudrama The Sultan and the Saint.

He worked for 23 years in daily journalism, mostly at Newsday’s New York City edition. He served as the paper’s City Hall bureau chief, Brooklyn editor, city editor and religion writer. As a rewrite man, he wrote the paper’s lead stories on the World Trade Center attack and on a subway crash that killed five people, the latter winning the Pulitzer Prize for Spot News Reporting in 1992.

He was also a reporter for The Associated Press, and has written for other outlets, including The Daily Beast, The New York Daily NewsThe Wall Street Journal, the Village VoiceCNN.comTime.comAmerica and Commonweal magazine, where he is a contributing writer. He lives in Brooklyn with his wife, Maureen.

DANBURY—On a rainy afternoon on November 7, the Immaculate High School girls field hockey team didn’t let the cold, dreary weather dampen their drive and defeated New Milford 1-0, winning the SWC Championship!  Emma Halas ‘21 scored the only goal of the game and Lauren Oskam ‘20 did not let a single ball get into her net. This is the second time the team won the title in three years, with a win in 2017 and almost reclaiming the title in 2018 but just missing the win in the final game. Congratulations to the team and coaches Shannon Horosky and Matthew Ariniello on this major accomplishment!  

For a full article on the victory provided by Game Time CT click here

HARTFORD—In its 12th annual State of Abortion in Connecticut report, the Connecticut Catholic Conference, which is the public policy office of the Catholic Bishops in Connecticut, revealed today that 75% of abortions performed in Connecticut during 2018 were paid for with taxpayer dollars.

In 2018, there were 9,294 abortions reported to the Department of Public Health as required by law. Of those abortions reported, 6,995 were performed on low-income women under the state’s Medicaid programs, most commonly known as HUSKY. Since the federal government does not reimburse the state for abortion expenses, the Connecticut taxpayers covered the expenses, which totaled $4.2 million. This information was provided to the Conference by the Connecticut Department of Social Services through a Freedom of Information request.

Connecticut pays the expenses for these abortions following a ruling in a 1986 Connecticut Superior Court case ordering that such expenses be covered. The state never appealed the ruling. In 1998, then Attorney General Richard Blumenthal issued an opinion applying that ruling to the HUSKY B program, which covers low-income teenage girls. Connecticut is one of fifteen states that require state taxpayers to pay for abortions under their Medicaid programs.

According to the Conference, it is conceivable that over the last 20 years Connecticut taxpayers have paid for approximately 140,000 abortions at a cost of $84 million. This is a conservative estimate, since the number of abortions performed in previous years were higher than the 9,294 total abortions reported in 2018. The number of abortions performed in Connecticut annually has declined by 32% over the last 10 years. This is reflective of a national trend.

“The large number of abortions performed on low-income women is reflective of Planned Parenthood’s financial dependency on this population group and the state income it generates to the organization. It is unfortunate that the political leaders in our state have never challenged the lower court’s ruling that is forcing many citizens to fund something that they find completely immoral and in direct conflict with their religious beliefs.”, said Chris Healy, Executive Director of the Catholic Conference.

The report also directly refutes the claims made by pro-choice advocates that changes in federal funding requirements for Title X family planning funds will hurt low-income women. Abortion services, the primary focus of Planned Parenthood centers, is already covered 100% by the state’s taxpayers. The Conference also emphasized that these funds were not cut. Planned Parenthood chose to stop their participation in the Title X program because of two new requirements: 1) Operate a separate facility for abortion services and 2) not provide direct medical referrals for abortions. Both requirements were intended to ensure compliance with already existing federal law that prohibits using the funding for abortions.

Even without Title X funds, Planned Parenthood of Southern New England is in an extremely strong financial position according to its own publicly available financial reports.

In the report, the Conference also highlights the lack of medical services provided by Planned Parenthood centers. The primary services they offer are extremely limited and can be obtained at other health centers, especially if the patient is covered by HUSKY. The one unique service they offer is abortion. Only four Planned Parenthood centers in Connecticut offer limited primary care services.

“Pro-choice advocates constantly make it appear that Planned Parenthood centers are a critical part of the healthcare system in our state, especially for low-income women. This is simply not true,” stated Healy. “Most of their services, with the exception of abortion services, can be found at other medical facilities across our state, such as Federally Qualified Health Centers. Federal money would be better spent on medical clinics that truly do offer a wide range of medical services to low-income residents.”

To view The State of Abortion in Connecticut—Twelfth Annual Report in its entirety, please click here.

The information contained in this report has been compiled and made available to the members of the Connecticut General Assembly and to the general public. It uses abortion data for the last ten years up to 2018, which is the most current data available.

ROME—A few hours ago I had the extraordinary privilege to join the other bishops of New England in a two-hour private meeting with the Pope. After the initial formalities were over and his staff left the room, the Pope, only with the help of a single translator, sat in the middle of a semi-circle in which we sat. He immediately began to speak to us from the heart on a number of important pastoral issues. He took great pains to make each of us feel both welcomed and comfortable. He even pointed out where the restroom was located, since he told us “we are all human, after all.”

The purpose of the meeting was to ask whatever questions we had, share pastoral issues that we face in the Diocese, and listen to his advice and guidance. While I do not believe that it is proper for me to comment on the substance of what we discussed since the conversation was a private one, it is clear that the Pope genuinely listened to everything we shared, gave direct and honest answers to the questions we posed and share many personal stories in his own life both as a young man and young priest.

It was a truly remarkable moment of grace that gave me great encouragement, challenged me to see some issues in a greater light and to be reassured in my own ministry as a bishop.

At the start of the meeting, I must confess that I was very nervous sitting before the Successor of Peter. Within a few minutes, I realized that I was sitting before a spiritual father who had no agenda except to help us in our ministry. It is a moment that I will never forget.

The previous reflection originally appeared on Bishop Frank Caggiano’s Facebook page. Follow the Bishop for daily reflections and weekly videos.

If you’ve ever read Emily Dickinson, or are interested in the spiritual bonds between religion and poetry you will find common ground with Monsignor Charles M. Murphy’s new book, Mystical Prayer, The Poetic Example Of Emily Dickinson. It is a trim but bountiful 117 pages just published by the Liturgical Press.

Father Murphy has done his homework in this compact but challenging volume. He reads Dickinson’s work perceptively and relates it to the Christian tradition. Dickinson was an heir to the grim Calvinism of Puritan New England. She couldn’t accept or reject her spiritual heritage. Murphy calls her an “unbelieving believer,” and explores her faith response through some of the greatest Christian poetry ever written. “In this book I reintroduce Emily Dickinson’s poem as examples of mystical prayer in the light of Christian tradition, and of St. Teresa of Avila in particular.”

Father Murphy beautifully illustrates his ideas with a remarkable selection of Dickinson’s work and a deep knowledge of scripture and mystical prayer. It is surprising in such a slight volume to come across so much information with references to Gregory of Nyssa, Therese of Lisieux. Mother Teresa, Catherine of Siena, John of the Cross, Benedict XVI and Pope Francis. This could’ve been a much longer study, but it functions as a brilliant introduction to Dickinson and signs of mystical experience. It is written clearly and directly, a book that both scholars and interested readers will draw from.

Father Murphy identifies three conditions for mystical prayer: solitude, asceticism and place. These are abundant in Dickinson’s poetry. She practiced a lifelong solitude despite a busy life with family obligations. Her solitude and her poetry became a form of prayer, a piercing awareness of God’s presence, and sometimes a piercing loneliness that He wasn’t there.

“Growth of Man—
like Growth of Nature—
Gravitates within—
Atmosphere, and Sun
endorse it—
But it stir alone—

Each—it’s difficult Ideal
Must achieve—Itself—
Through the solitary prowess
Of a Silent Life…”

Dickinson isn’t an easy poet but Murphy takes us through her greatest poems making them clear and accessible and celebrating her wild delight in God and nature. Dickinson knew the landscape of Amherst like St. Anthony of Egypt knew the desert. The hills and valleys of New England were her Eden and her Calvary. In the seasons and the flowers she kept up a prayerful dialogue with a living God. She was a feminist and a quiet rebel, and along the way she wrote some of the most magnificent poetry in all of world literature. For Murphy it was ultimately a prayer of faith and a witness to “possibility”. She didn’t always find God in her life, but she remained open.

The Soul should always stand ajar.
That if the heaven require
He will not be obliged to wait.

Her readiness to find God came from experiences of ecstasy, periods of depression, seasons of doubt, but it was her desire for love that honed her sensitivity to God. Mystical prayer has a powerful and personal gravity that ties us to earth while we reach for transcendence.

After I read this book through, I turned to the first page and started again. Murphy’s Mystical Prayer is obviously the work of long years of study and delight in Emily Dickinson’s poetry, as well as a profound experience of mystical prayer. It amazes me that he can, in short form, bring to life the poet from Amherst as richly as he does. I’ve read much longer studies that didn’t have the depth of insight about Dickinson and the embrace of her wounded humanity. In this case the bond between the poet and Father Murphy yield an honest and searching portrait of one of America’s most enigmatic geniuses.

Best of all, Murphy enlarged my sense of prayer through poetry. It is clear that he has learned to pray with the poets, and to reflect on the many ways that God reaches us if we “leave the door ajar.”

Dickinson heard God in the chirp of crickets and in the songs of the oriole. She felt called to God by the beauty of his Creation. She had sought Him in so many places, but ironically realized that she was the one being sought.

“Nature and God—
I neither knew
Yet both so well knew me
They startled like Executors
Of My identity.”

Murphy has given us a new look at the ever-enchanting imagination of Emily Dickinson, and given us the opportunity to find God in prayerful listening and joy in witness of poetry.

(Editor’s Note: Father Charles Murphy, the book’s author, recently visited St. Joseph Parish in Danbury at the invitation of Father Samuel V. Scott, pastor, to discuss his book on “Mystical Prayer” and sign books for those in attendance.) 

BRIDGEPORT—On September 25, Bishop Frank J. Caggiano made an exciting announcement at the Foundations in Faith Bishop’s Reception. Two $5,000 grants will be awarded; one to a Catholic High School and one to a Catholic Church high school-aged youth group in the Diocese of Bridgeport. Known as the Youth in Action Grant it is “by youth – for youth.”

Bishop Frank is eager to hear young people’s ideas on how best to re-energize the teen Catholic faith experience. According to Bishop Caggiano, “We need to listen to their voices and give them space and resources to design programs and projects that will resonate with them.” Bishop Caggiano challenges the teens to propose a project that includes elements of collaboration, evangelization and mission work.

According to Kelly Weldon, “Too often we have adults deciding what would be best for our youth. Times are calling for us to flip the script and let the youth innovate and show us, adults, a new way of approaching our faith. The Youth in Action Grant is intended to be youth-led with support and guidance from an adult mentor.”

The Youth in Action Grant application is a google form that should be submitted electronically by November 22. A committee will review the grant applications and the best High School project and youth group project will be announced in December. The funded projects will begin in January 2020 and continue through the calendar year.

A link to the Youth in Action Application was first shared on Instagram @FoundationsinFaithbpt – Good luck to all the youth and their adult mentors who will be submitting applications.

Youth in Action Application

Youth in Action Budget template

View Only- Youth in Action Application

All YIA Applications must be submitted online. No hardcopy or print outs of the  “view-only application” will be accepted.

TRUMBULL—Tickets are still available for the Association of Fundraising Professionals (AFP) Fairfield County and Connecticut Chapters National Philanthropy Day Annual Awards and Conference on November 8, 2019, at the Trumbull Marriott and Conference Center. This full day of professional workshops includes guest speakers, networking opportunities, and more. The conference is open to the public and professional fundraisers, consultants, board members, volunteers, and other nonprofit leaders can benefit from the educational sessions offered.

The day begins at 8 am with an awards breakfast honoring and recognizing donors, volunteers and professionals whose gifts of time, expertise and resources contribute significantly to the quality of life in our communities. Immediately following are educational programs which focus on board leadership and governance, fundraising best practices, marketing and communication, and organizational challenges. Sessions will be presented by local, experienced non-profit leaders and partners to help strengthen the work being done in our communities.

Session One:

  • The Funders Perspective with Jay Williams, President, Hartford Foundation for Public Giving
  • Disruptive Changes in the Fundraising Landscape with Ninette Enrique, Director of Development, St. Luke’s School
  • Maximizing Your Social Media with John Grosso, Director of Digital Media, Diocese of Bridgeport
  • Data Mining – Finding the Gems in our Midst with Kenn Devane, President and CEO, Mine Tech, Inc

Session Two:

  • Leveraging Your Board and Key Donors To Be Your Best Asset with Mary Franco, Principal, MGF Consulting
  • Creating a Culture of Philanthropy with Holly Doherty-Lemoine, CFRE, Executive Director, Foundations in Education
  • The Keys to Marketing and Branding with Carol Cheney, President, Cheney & Co
  • Measuring Staff Performance: It’s Not Just About the Money with Lisa Ferraro, CFRE, Director of Development and Marketing, Eagle Hill School

Session Three:

  • A Conversation on Best Practices for Board Leadership with Paul J. Sutera, CFRE, Senior Vice President for Advancement and External Affairs, Iona College, and Andrew J. Dolce, Iona College Trustee/Stockton University Trustee and Founder and Chairman Emeritus of Dolce Hotels and Resorts.
  • Building Financial Rapport with Donors with Steve Jakab, CFRE, President, Bridgeport Hospital Foundation and Larry Raff, President, Copley Raff, Inc
  • Philanthropic Driven Goals, Data Driven Marketing (How to Avoid the Mission Trap) with David A. Snyder, President, Snyder Group Inc
  • Culture, Caring, Communication: How To Create the Conditions To Attract and Retain Talented Staff with Don Hasseltine, Senior Consultant, Aspen Leadership Group

Then enjoy a banquet luncheon featuring nationally acclaimed author, activist, fundraiser and speaker Dan Pallotta, Founder and President, Add Humanity and the Charity Defense Council. Dan Pallotta is a builder of movements. His model and methods he created are employed by dozens of charities and have raised over $1.5 billion more for important causes. His 2013 TED Talk has been seen more than 4.7 million times and is one of the 100 most-viewed Talks of all time. He is also the author of “Uncharitable: How Restraints on Nonprofits Undermine Their Potential,” the best-selling title in the history of Tufts University Press.

The afternoon offers round table learning moderated by experts and non-profit leaders and will close with Power Hour Networking.

Whether you are new to the field of fundraising or an experienced professional or philanthropist, you will find workshops to inspire and educate. Advanced registration is required. Ticket prices vary and include options such as Student ($125); AFP Members ($175); and Non-AFP Members ($225). Tickets for the Awards Breakfast Only ($50) are also available.

AFP works with corporate partners and organizations that provide high-quality professional services to those engaged in the fundraising profession. Sponsorships help AFP in producing this year’s conference and as a sponsor, companies will receive exposure through printed and digital materials, social media, on-site promotion and more! Thank you to the early sponsors Ability BeyondAquarion WaterBank of America Private BankbloomerangCCS FundraisingcompumailDiocese of Bridgeport & Foundations in EducationEveryActionFairfield County’s Community FoundationFirst County BankIona CollegeIroquois GasLittle Green LightMCommunicationsNew Alliance FoundationNuvance HealthPrincipalValley Community FoundationWebster Bank, and Yale New Haven Health.

(For more information or to purchase tickets or become a sponsor, please visit www.afpfairfield.org/NPD2019.)

AFP empowers individuals and organizations to practice ethical fundraising through professional education, networking, research and advocacy. Founded in 1960, AFP advances philanthropy through its 31,000 members in more than 240 chapters throughout the word. AFP Fairfield County and AFP Connecticut chapters promote AFP values statewide.

(To learn about the benefits of AFP Membership, please visit http://www.afpfairfield.org/.)

WILTON—On Friday, November 8 at 12:45 pm, Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Academy will hold its Fall Walk-A-Thon. This is one of the school’s major fundraising events of the year, but it will also benefit the community. Ten percent of all funds raised in the walk-a-thon will be donated to local area food banks (Norwalk and Wilton).

Students and faculty will walk a designated route on the school and adjacent church property.  Each grade will choose a canonized saint to remember and honor in their walk. “The saints will be our inspiration for the walk,” said school Principal Stanley Steele. “The walk-a-thon is a perfect opportunity for our students to see what ‘service above self’ really means. We work hard to instill the notion of giving back to the community and helping those in need, as the saints did. And we’ll have a little fun in the process, too.”

In addition to working on class projects to showcase their spirit and support for the event, students have garnered pledges of support from family, friends and neighbors. Businesses and individuals interested in supporting walk-a-thon participants are also welcome to make donations and may contact the school. The deadline for walk-a-thon donations is November 8, 2019.

The Fall Walk-A-Thon will take place at Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Academy, 225 Danbury Road, Wilton, Conn.

About Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Academy

Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Academy is co-educational, National Blue Ribbon School offering a Pre-Kindergarten 3 through grade 8 education model. The Academy’s personalized approach to Learning blends classroom and small group instruction with technology to provide learning that is fluid and flexible based on the ability of the student. Multi-age, child-centered classrooms offer continuous learning. OLFCA’s faith-based environment nurtures the whole child and emphasizes strong moral values and respect for self and others. The Academy is located at 225 Danbury Road, Wilton CT 06897.

(For tours and admissions information, contact Stanley Steele, principal at ssteele@olfcatholic.org, by email at: www.olfacademy.org. Or by phone at: 203.762.8100.)

STRATFORD—On the morning of October 27, a day that would have been recognizable to Noah as the time to “batten down the hatches” and set out on his epic, divine-inspired cruise, Faith Formation students, parents, family members and friends converged at Holy Name of Jesus for the 2nd monthly F.A.I.T.H. Community Event!

F.A.I.T.H. (Family Activities In The Hall) Community Events, made possible through a generous grant from the JPII Foundation, are intergenerational gatherings that explore various aspects of our Faith through catechesis, liturgy, discussion, media and service. The ‘theme’ for this school year, introduced at the September F.A.I.T.H. Community Event is Catholic Social Teaching. The focus for our October event was Respect for Life and the Dignity of ALL as Children of God.

On the weekend of October 1-2, in conjunction with Respect Life Sunday, students in various levels assisted at
our Parish’s annual Blessing of the Animals and participated in the rededication ceremony of our Knight’s of Columbus chapter’s Monument to the Unborn. In addition, our youth preparing for the Sacraments of Reconciliation and Eucharist and those preparing for Confirmation engaged the wider Parish community by inviting them to participate in service projects they initiated.

Our Level 2 youth sponsored Rosary intention pledge cards in recognition of October as a month dedicated to Our Blessed Mother. The free will offerings collected will be used to purchase socks, hats and gloves for the
homeless living under the John Street overpass. Simultaneously, our Confirmation candidates organized and managed our participation in Cross Catholic Outreach’s ‘Boxes of Joy’ campaign—a drive that helps to provide
gifts at Christmas to children in impoverished areas of Central and South America and the Caribbean. Through these service projects, our youth are learning first hand the meaning and importance of our Lord’s command to ‘Feed the Hungry…’ BOTH service projects were greatly successful.

Building on the lessons learned and the success of these service projects, our entire Faith Formation community gathered in Church on the 27th for the 11 am Mass and then ran through the torrential rain to the Parish Hall for a light lunch and a series of presentations and activities designed to give them a greater appreciation of their own dignity and a fuller awareness of the ways we can and must be more respectful to all.

After a short introduction to the many aspects of Respect Life, we reminded everyone that the ‘only way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time!’ In other words, since this topic is so enormous, we would be focusing on some of the general themes that could then be applied to most other situations.

Our first order of business was to confront our own biases and prejudices– the ways we consciously or unconsciously disrespect others. The video “Change For A Dollar?” proved to be a powerful aid in achieving this goal! We then split off our attendees in order to address topics in an age-appropriate way. Levels K-3 took on the topic of respect at home and among our friends. Level 4 -9 were led through activities and discussion focusing on Respect for Self and dangers that exist which attack the dignity of others.

Parents and other adults heard presentations and entered into a dialogue on how to protect, guide and form our youth (their children) in safe, dignified and respectful ways. Nancy Lucas presented an overview of the main points of our Diocesan Safe Environments initiative, encouraging all to attend one of the full workshops.
Tammy Trojanowski from the town of Stratford Community Services Office gave an overview of resources available to assist and strengthen youth and families. Among many inspiring and thought-provoking messages offered, the overriding theme was “Be informed, be involved, be attentive, be proactive.”

BRIDGEPORT—What do the letters INRI on the Crucifix stand for? In Hebrew, what does “Amen” mean? Who was the first canonized saint from the U.S.? If you have accepted The Leadership Institute’s Family Bible Challenge, you know all these answers—and more.
Now wrapping up its third session, this Challenge has engaged over 2,100 families throughout the Diocese of Bridgeport and beyond with a goal of connecting the faithful with sacred scripture. Through biblical passages, reflection questions, videos, and online trivia, participants are embracing the Challenge’s motto of “Encounter Scripture. Encounter Christ.”
Patrick Donovan, director of The Leadership Institute, said interest in this program has “grown exponentially” since the first session began last spring. “There is a strong desire of people to learn about their faith,” he said. “We want people to open their Bibles.”
Following the success of Seasons 1 and 2 which focused on Lent and Pentecost, respectively, Season 3 has aimed to educate participants on Women in Scripture, which has provided an opportunity for parents like Brenner LeCompte and his wife Kristen to be more intentional in passing on the faith to their young children.
“My older daughter loved the animated video of the Book of Ruth,” said LeCompte, of St. Mary Parish in Ridgefield. “This has been a great opportunity for us. Our kids see that faith is not just one hour on Sunday.”
With a goal of engaging both families and individuals in the Bible, The Leadership Institute sends an email each Sunday with a passage to read and discuss. Quizzes on the material follow on Wednesday. The success of the online trivia, Donovan said, prompted the addition of Catequizem, a new site with less Bible-oriented and more general questions such as those on the Old Testament, the Mass and the Saints.
“I have heard that some families are doing the quizzes at dinner,” said Donovan. “They tell me that no electronics are allowed at the table except on Wednesdays when they do the quizzes.”
These moments for discussion and reflection, whether at dinner, before bedtime, or while in the car, have allowed more time for bonding and togetherness for those participating, such as the Medeiros family from Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Danbury. Pedro Medeiros said he and his wife Hady enjoy reading scripture with their children.
“When we have a busy day and are caught up with work and chores, this gives us a moment when everything can stop and we can read together as a family,” said Medeiros whose five-year-old likes looking at the pictures that accompany the questions. “It keeps scripture close to us, and that’s the best part.”
In addition to these activities, The Leadership Institute held several trivia nights last spring and has been partnering with Catholic high schools to encourage students to assist with writing future questions. Also benefitting from the Family Bible Challenge are religion classes at Diocesan elementary schools, such as those at St. Thomas Aquinas School in Fairfield. Winnie Shay, a sixth and seventh-grade religion teacher, began printing out the reflections last spring.
“I want to be sure my students know how to use their Bibles,” said Shay, who feels these questions and passages are helping them learn their faith. “It’s definitely been enriching.”
As a gift from the American Bible Society, the diocese received 7,500 Bibles in both English and Spanish which have been distributed to those who registered for the Challenge with extra ones going to school children. Maria Ortiz of St. Peter’s Church in Bridgeport said she likes the option of reading passages in both languages.
“Sometimes I read the Spanish version and sometimes the English one. I get to read them twice!” said Ortiz, one of many who is doing the Challenge alone. “I am learning so much more about my Catholic faith. There is always something more to learn.”
As Advent approaches, The Leadership Institute is prepared to launch its next session on November 24 and has plans for a fifth one in the spring. “The response to the Challenge is better than we were hoping for,” said Donovan. “We have to keep in mind that we say parents are the first teachers, but we don’t always give parents the tools they need to articulate their faith.”
With these tools now available, families have the opportunity to be even more purposeful with scripture at home. “We’re all more comfortable with the Bible and our faith,” said LeCompte. “It’s become woven into our daily lives.”
And for those of you still wondering: INRI stands for Iesus Nazarenus Rex Iudaeorum (Jesus of Nazareth, King of the Jews), “Amen” means “It is true, so it is,” and Elizabeth Ann Seton was the first canonized U.S. saint.
By Emily Clark
For more information on the Family Bible Challenge—and to sign up for the next session—visit: familybiblechallenge.org) 

BRIDGEPORT—Foundations in Education, a non-profit organization created to assist the Diocese of Bridgeport’s ongoing mission to support Catholic education in Fairfield County, announced its 2020 Gala Honorees – recognizing generosity in support of Catholic education and excellence in Catholic teaching and leadership.

The 2020 Honorees are Lynn and Frank Mara and Dr. Julia M. McNamara. Foundations in Education will celebrate the honorees at the 5th annual Spring Gala on Thursday, April 23, 2020 at Woodway Country Club in Darien, CT.

“Each year, we have the privilege of recognizing honorees who are true partners in our mission,” remarked Foundations in Education Executive Director, Holly Doherty-Lemoine. “This year’s honorees have impacted thousands of children and their collective contributions may be felt across the Diocese of Bridgeport and region.”

Frank and Lynn Mara are longtime supporters of the Diocese of Bridgeport, and have been active parishioners at St. Paul Catholic Church in Greenwich, CT since they were married in 1987.

After graduating from Fairfield University in 1982, Frank joined the New York Football Giants, Inc. as the assistant to the president and then worked in the college personnel division. Currently, he serves as Vice President of Community Relations for the New York Football Giants. He has served on the board of Iona Preparatory School (where both he and his four sons attended) and is an active supporter of many charitable organizations including the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, Sisters of Saint Dominic, Providence College, and Malta House of Good Counsel. He is a Board member of the Giants Foundation and served on the committee for Foundations in Education 2019 Gala.

Lynn is also the product of an all-Catholic education, graduating from Marymount College in 1982. She is an artist who was recently accepted into the Silvermine Art Guild in New Canaan. She attends daily Mass at St. Paul Catholic Church, where she is also a Eucharistic Minister, a member of the Parish Council, and former CCD teacher. Along with her husband’s philanthropies, Lynn supports Boys Hope, Girls Hope, and is a small group leader of Walking with Purpose, a Bible study group for women.

Lynn and Frank have four sons, Sean, Jack, Frankie, and Owen, and one daughter-in-law, Kaitlin Kelly. The sons all attended Greenwich Catholic School and Iona Preparatory School. Lynn said, “Catholic education was the greatest gift our parents gave to us and we believe it’s the best gift we could give our children as well.”

Dr. Julia McNamara’s career in Catholic education began when she served as a teacher in elementary and high schools where the focus was always on the Dominican tradition of seeking truth and communicating the immense value of learning. After completing her academic studies at institutions which included Ohio Dominican University, Middlebury College in Vermont, and Yale University, she was invited to join the faculty and administrative team at Albertus Magnus College, where she served as professor of French Language and Literature and as Dean of Students. In 1982, the College’s trustees selected her to serve as President of Albertus, the position which she held until her retirement in 2016, at which time the trustees voted to confer on her the honorary title of President Emerita.

As President of Albertus, Dr. McNamara also served on the boards of various organizations including the Board of Directors of the Association of Catholic Colleges and Universities; the Board of Trustees and several terms as Chair of both Yale-New Haven Hospital and Yale New Haven Health System; the Community Foundation for Greater New Haven; the United Way of Greater New Haven; the International Festival of Arts and Ideas; and the Shubert Theatre. In 1990, she was the first woman elected to serve on the five-member Committee of Proprietors of the Common and Undivided Lands in New Haven, an organization which was founded in 1638.

Since her retirement from Albertus, Dr. McNamara has continued her voluntary services as a trustee on the Board of Foundations in Education, Inc. where she chairs the Committee on Innovation and Leadership; as a trustee of Anna Maria College in Massachusetts; as a trustee of St. Martin de Porres Academy in New Haven; and as chair of the first-ever Capital Campaign for Dominican Academy in New York City, her high school alma mater where, she says, her love for learning began.

The annual Spring Gala is Foundations in Education’s premier fundraising event. Gala proceeds benefit Foundations in Education, including Bishop’s Scholarship Fund and Innovation and Leadership Grants. This year alone, Bishop’s Scholarship Fund awarded 1,456 students nearly $2,800,000 in tuition assistance so they may experience transformational education based on Christian values and character formation at Catholic elementary schools throughout the Bridgeport Diocese. Foundations will be funding grants to educators in the amount of $150,000 for innovative and leadership initiatives within Diocesan Catholic schools, thus benefiting students further.

Please visit www.foundationsineducation.org for more information.